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		By: Blogging Part I&#8211;Meet the Bright Idea Fairy, then Shoot Her &#171; Kristen Lamb&#039;s Blog		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Blogging Part I&#8211;Meet the Bright Idea Fairy, then Shoot Her &#171; Kristen Lamb&#039;s Blog]]></dc:creator>
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					<description><![CDATA[[...] from Microsoft Word, people are nice and won’t tell you that you suck, unless you have broken my rule about controversy. No blogging on sex, politics or religion unless that is your platform. But so long as you blog on [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] from Microsoft Word, people are nice and won’t tell you that you suck, unless you have broken my rule about controversy. No blogging on sex, politics or religion unless that is your platform. But so long as you blog on [&#8230;]</p>
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		By: bill hubiak		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[bill hubiak]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Nov 2010 16:52:10 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Thank you for your insights. I&#039;m just beginning to explore the blogging universe and will be following your blog regularly, among other reasons to remind me to T.H.I.N.K. Was it Mark Twain who said that every minute spent angry was sixty seconds of lost happiness?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for your insights. I&#8217;m just beginning to explore the blogging universe and will be following your blog regularly, among other reasons to remind me to T.H.I.N.K. Was it Mark Twain who said that every minute spent angry was sixty seconds of lost happiness?</p>
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		By: foxpudding		</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Oct 2010 22:51:44 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Yup, I agree.  You can find someone combative everywhere you turn.  It gets old.  I&#039;m more interested in writers who share. Thanks.

http://foxpudding.wordpress.com]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yup, I agree.  You can find someone combative everywhere you turn.  It gets old.  I&#8217;m more interested in writers who share. Thanks.</p>
<p><a href="http://foxpudding.wordpress.com" rel="nofollow ugc">http://foxpudding.wordpress.com</a></p>
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		By: Kristen Lamb		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Kristen Lamb]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Oct 2010 21:56:47 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://authorkristenlamb.com/2010/10/social-media-savvy-the-art-of-making-others-feel-welcome/#comment-1573&quot;&gt;Amy&lt;/a&gt;.

No, my mom used the term T.H.I.N.K. and I wasn&#039;t claiming it as mine, just recommending it as a useful test. What needs to be made clear is that writers need to just consider the cost of being divisive. Sometimes that is part of the platform. For instance, Howard Stern creates contraversy. So, for him to be contraversial serves his purpose. There are writers who address contraversial topics in their fiction--transsexuality, honor killings, incest, whatever. Their platform is contraversial so topics that incite fiery opinions are part and parcel.

But, there are a lot of writers out there scrabbling for topics to blog about and contraversy IS NOT part of their platform. Ranting about Obama or the Tea Party has nothing to do with a YA fiction about dragons. My blog post was to make writers consider what the blog&#039;s purpose was in the context of their overall platform before they posted and needlessly fractured a platform. And I am not giving any advice an agent wouldn&#039;t give. This is a job and if we are getting in Twitter fights and ranting in blogs about topics that don&#039;t help our platform and it is painting our books in a negative light, we will face consequences.

Thanks for taking the time to comment, :)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://authorkristenlamb.com/2010/10/social-media-savvy-the-art-of-making-others-feel-welcome/#comment-1573">Amy</a>.</p>
<p>No, my mom used the term T.H.I.N.K. and I wasn&#8217;t claiming it as mine, just recommending it as a useful test. What needs to be made clear is that writers need to just consider the cost of being divisive. Sometimes that is part of the platform. For instance, Howard Stern creates contraversy. So, for him to be contraversial serves his purpose. There are writers who address contraversial topics in their fiction&#8211;transsexuality, honor killings, incest, whatever. Their platform is contraversial so topics that incite fiery opinions are part and parcel.</p>
<p>But, there are a lot of writers out there scrabbling for topics to blog about and contraversy IS NOT part of their platform. Ranting about Obama or the Tea Party has nothing to do with a YA fiction about dragons. My blog post was to make writers consider what the blog&#8217;s purpose was in the context of their overall platform before they posted and needlessly fractured a platform. And I am not giving any advice an agent wouldn&#8217;t give. This is a job and if we are getting in Twitter fights and ranting in blogs about topics that don&#8217;t help our platform and it is painting our books in a negative light, we will face consequences.</p>
<p>Thanks for taking the time to comment, 🙂</p>
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		By: Amy		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Amy]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Oct 2010 21:38:26 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Interesting post....but I&#039;m unclear on two points:  are you claiming the credit for the term THINK?  Because I&#039;ve seen it for years, and it was one of my mom&#039;s most famous (and thus annoying, sayings!).  I&#039;ve also seen it in print as well.

Secondly, while you reviewed this writer&#039;s website, I&#039;m not sure I can agree with your take in imagining what &quot;most&quot; or &quot;some&quot; of his reader&#039;s think.  The wonderful thing about a blog is that you can say what you feel, and it&#039;s your forum to do so.  They may not appeal to everyone, but they may also not be expecting to do so.  Personally, I find it fascinating to see what subjects serve to create passion for some people.  I don&#039;t have to agree to recongize their passion, and I certainly don&#039;t expect them to tone down their words to please some who &quot;may&quot; be offended-it&#039;s very difficult to know how people will respond. Indeed, a blogger may come off completely bombastic, but then again, that reveals a great deal.  It&#039;s up to the reader to discern if they want to agree or not.

To take a Pollyanna approach and assume that everything should be shiny and happy is not realistic-some bloggers tackle subjects that are difficult and controversial.  A reader has the option to simply move on-they aren&#039;t locked in.  Similar to an editorial or a letter to the editor in a newspaper:  we can move to another topic if we disagree.  But the ability that the editor or letter writer has to vent/rant/etc is an important part of free speech.

I&#039;ll give an example of my own:  there&#039;s a website group that is very active in book reviewing/publishing/general chatter.  I get a great deal of useful information from them, but I personally am often offended  by their free use of obscenities, graphic sexual innuendo, and some of their political beliefs.  Do I expect them to change to comfort my sensibilities, or take the good with the bad?  As an adult, I find it possible to take what I want, buffet style, and ignore the rest.  I also have the choice to avoid them like the plague.  It&#039;s up to me.

I completely agree with you in the sense of an author&#039;s page:  certainly they don&#039;t want to alienate anyone.  But for bloggers in general, their content is their choice.  And sadly, it&#039;s often someone that we disagree with politically that we tend to complain about...whereas someone on our side of the spectrum might not bother us at all.


I appreciate the message you are sending...it&#039;s useful to anyone from email to social media...tone reveals all.  But, I&#039;d much rather read a fiery tirade with feeling than a subtle attempt at being manipulated through sweet talk.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Interesting post&#8230;.but I&#8217;m unclear on two points:  are you claiming the credit for the term THINK?  Because I&#8217;ve seen it for years, and it was one of my mom&#8217;s most famous (and thus annoying, sayings!).  I&#8217;ve also seen it in print as well.</p>
<p>Secondly, while you reviewed this writer&#8217;s website, I&#8217;m not sure I can agree with your take in imagining what &#8220;most&#8221; or &#8220;some&#8221; of his reader&#8217;s think.  The wonderful thing about a blog is that you can say what you feel, and it&#8217;s your forum to do so.  They may not appeal to everyone, but they may also not be expecting to do so.  Personally, I find it fascinating to see what subjects serve to create passion for some people.  I don&#8217;t have to agree to recongize their passion, and I certainly don&#8217;t expect them to tone down their words to please some who &#8220;may&#8221; be offended-it&#8217;s very difficult to know how people will respond. Indeed, a blogger may come off completely bombastic, but then again, that reveals a great deal.  It&#8217;s up to the reader to discern if they want to agree or not.</p>
<p>To take a Pollyanna approach and assume that everything should be shiny and happy is not realistic-some bloggers tackle subjects that are difficult and controversial.  A reader has the option to simply move on-they aren&#8217;t locked in.  Similar to an editorial or a letter to the editor in a newspaper:  we can move to another topic if we disagree.  But the ability that the editor or letter writer has to vent/rant/etc is an important part of free speech.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ll give an example of my own:  there&#8217;s a website group that is very active in book reviewing/publishing/general chatter.  I get a great deal of useful information from them, but I personally am often offended  by their free use of obscenities, graphic sexual innuendo, and some of their political beliefs.  Do I expect them to change to comfort my sensibilities, or take the good with the bad?  As an adult, I find it possible to take what I want, buffet style, and ignore the rest.  I also have the choice to avoid them like the plague.  It&#8217;s up to me.</p>
<p>I completely agree with you in the sense of an author&#8217;s page:  certainly they don&#8217;t want to alienate anyone.  But for bloggers in general, their content is their choice.  And sadly, it&#8217;s often someone that we disagree with politically that we tend to complain about&#8230;whereas someone on our side of the spectrum might not bother us at all.</p>
<p>I appreciate the message you are sending&#8230;it&#8217;s useful to anyone from email to social media&#8230;tone reveals all.  But, I&#8217;d much rather read a fiery tirade with feeling than a subtle attempt at being manipulated through sweet talk.</p>
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		By: Giving fellow authors a shout out &#171; Author Mark Fadden: Dispatches from the literary trenches		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Giving fellow authors a shout out &#171; Author Mark Fadden: Dispatches from the literary trenches]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Oct 2010 02:43:52 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[[...] about book marketing, she has written a best-seller on the writer&#8217;s guide to social media. Read her post from today and then &#8220;THINK&#8221; about it. Don&#8217;t worry, you&#8217;ll get that one after you [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] about book marketing, she has written a best-seller on the writer&#8217;s guide to social media. Read her post from today and then &#8220;THINK&#8221; about it. Don&#8217;t worry, you&#8217;ll get that one after you [&#8230;]</p>
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		By: Adventures in Children's Publishing		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Adventures in Children's Publishing]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Oct 2010 01:24:35 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Another excellent post! And it&#039;s true. It&#039;s always so disappointing to come across blogs where you have to wade through negativity to get to anything worthwhile. Those aren&#039;t the blogs we want to come back to. And you are so right about Tawna Fenske&#039;s blog and Jody Hedlund&#039;s. Those are two of our favorites too!

And thanks very much for the kind words about us!

Martina (and Marissa)
@4KidLit]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Another excellent post! And it&#8217;s true. It&#8217;s always so disappointing to come across blogs where you have to wade through negativity to get to anything worthwhile. Those aren&#8217;t the blogs we want to come back to. And you are so right about Tawna Fenske&#8217;s blog and Jody Hedlund&#8217;s. Those are two of our favorites too!</p>
<p>And thanks very much for the kind words about us!</p>
<p>Martina (and Marissa)<br />
@4KidLit</p>
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		By: Social Media Savvy–The Art of Making Others Feel Welcome « Kristen &#8230; &#124; World Media Information		</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Oct 2010 20:51:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		By: Jes Carey		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Jes Carey]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Oct 2010 19:22:26 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Currently I am searching for a job to replace selling books.  This brings me to action in my writing, Kristen.  There is so much inside of me that wants to come out!  I am so glad you answered the door this summer.  Hope you are well- I am eating up your words. Peace]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Currently I am searching for a job to replace selling books.  This brings me to action in my writing, Kristen.  There is so much inside of me that wants to come out!  I am so glad you answered the door this summer.  Hope you are well- I am eating up your words. Peace</p>
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		By: Social Media Savvy&#8211;The Art of Making Others Feel Welcome (via Kristen Lamb&#039;s Blog) &#171; Marilag Lubag&#039;s Blog		</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[[...] Social Media Savvy&#8211;The Art of Making Others Feel Welcome (via Kristen Lamb&#039;s&#160;Blog)  Posted on October 13, 2010 by marilaglubag   Just like we should think before we speak, we should think before we post.  Welcome to WANA Wednesday, based off my best-selling book We Are Not Alone—The Writer’s Guide to Social Media. This is the day I dedicate to help you make the most out of your social media experience. I teach, specifically, social media for writers. Writers are unique. Our social media presence is different than a business or even a casual user. We straddle both worlds, and often we feel as if we are in social limbo. We have to make sure to be fr &#8230; Read More [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] Social Media Savvy&#8211;The Art of Making Others Feel Welcome (via Kristen Lamb&#039;s&nbsp;Blog)  Posted on October 13, 2010 by marilaglubag   Just like we should think before we speak, we should think before we post.  Welcome to WANA Wednesday, based off my best-selling book We Are Not Alone—The Writer’s Guide to Social Media. This is the day I dedicate to help you make the most out of your social media experience. I teach, specifically, social media for writers. Writers are unique. Our social media presence is different than a business or even a casual user. We straddle both worlds, and often we feel as if we are in social limbo. We have to make sure to be fr &#8230; Read More [&#8230;]</p>
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