I know what you mean. Sometimes the universe has to step in and present us with circumstances that force us to do things differently. It’s so alert-minded of you to see that opportunity – grab it!

When my mother-in-law became grievously ill (vegetative coma), I needed to quit my job. I had little ones at home – with hubby traveling b/c of his mom, and then her being in a rehab center, I couldn’t keep working. I decided then that it was time to start the novel I’d always wanted to write.

The novel is finished. She didn’t make it, but I know she would be proud of me. I’ve dedicated it to her, which the world will see if it’s ever published.

My worst week (this was my dad’s but he’s onto something when he said this since we all experienced it) was during a police pursuit when a 6 yo neighbor of mine died because she got pinned down on our wall. Yes, the police had to come into our backyard because one of the people they’re chasing came down to our yard. It’s worse than when we got evacuated because of the fire.

After those weeks, I put everything into perspective. I’ve never really had a bad week (a tough one, yes but not a bad one). I figured that it would also come to pass so there’s no point of stressing out too much. It’s hard but I just did my best and asked for help whenever I need it. I improvise and make do of what I have.

Good luck! This might be a tough time to you guys but I’m hoping for the best. It will be okay no matter what. I’m not saying ideal but whatever happens, it will work itself out.