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		By: Why don&#8217;t you see me the way I see myself? &#124; figuringitoutdaily		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Why don&#8217;t you see me the way I see myself? &#124; figuringitoutdaily]]></dc:creator>
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					<description><![CDATA[[&#8230;] http://warriorwriters.wordpress.com/2013/03/07/enemies-of-the-art-part-10-having-a-thin-skin/ [&#8230;]]]></description>
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		By: Crushing Critique &#124; Sharon Lee Hughson		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Crushing Critique &#124; Sharon Lee Hughson]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Dec 2013 16:06:17 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[[&#8230;] (and editor) whose work I deeply admire and respect offered to read five pages after I commented on her blog that getting worthwhile critiques seemed [&#8230;]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] (and editor) whose work I deeply admire and respect offered to read five pages after I commented on her blog that getting worthwhile critiques seemed [&#8230;]</p>
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		By: Enemies of the Art Part 10–Having a Thin Skin &#124; Nada Faris &#124; Blog		</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Jun 2013 13:02:19 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[[&#8230;] latest post, &#8220;Enemies of the Art Part 10–Having a Thin Skin,&#8221; strummed the chords of my ruptured heart! In the beginning of my ten year journey to [&#8230;]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] latest post, &#8220;Enemies of the Art Part 10–Having a Thin Skin,&#8221; strummed the chords of my ruptured heart! In the beginning of my ten year journey to [&#8230;]</p>
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		By: Author Kristen Lamb		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Author Kristen Lamb]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 31 Mar 2013 22:19:54 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://authorkristenlamb.com/2013/03/enemies-of-the-art-part-10-having-a-thin-skin/#comment-29992&quot;&gt;therapist2talk2&lt;/a&gt;.

NF or memoir would be my best guess. Hire a ghost writer.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://authorkristenlamb.com/2013/03/enemies-of-the-art-part-10-having-a-thin-skin/#comment-29992">therapist2talk2</a>.</p>
<p>NF or memoir would be my best guess. Hire a ghost writer.</p>
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		By: therapist2talk2		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[therapist2talk2]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 31 Mar 2013 20:35:51 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://authorkristenlamb.com/2013/03/enemies-of-the-art-part-10-having-a-thin-skin/#comment-29886&quot;&gt;Wendy Reis Editing&lt;/a&gt;.

Any suggestions to those of us who have valuable  information to share based on lived experience? Writing is not something I  ever planned to do, but &#039;writing for my life&#039; is all I have done now for the past 4 years.  Some have said you need to write a book and a PhD in English told me I can&#039;t even write a sentence.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://authorkristenlamb.com/2013/03/enemies-of-the-art-part-10-having-a-thin-skin/#comment-29886">Wendy Reis Editing</a>.</p>
<p>Any suggestions to those of us who have valuable  information to share based on lived experience? Writing is not something I  ever planned to do, but &#8216;writing for my life&#8217; is all I have done now for the past 4 years.  Some have said you need to write a book and a PhD in English told me I can&#8217;t even write a sentence.</p>
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		By: Crushing Critique &#124; Sharon Lee Hughson&#039;s Information Outlet		</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Mar 2013 15:10:37 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[[...] (and editor) whose work I deeply admire and respect offered to read five pages after I commented on her blog that getting worthwhile critiques seemed [...]]]></description>
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		By: Linda Adams		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Linda Adams]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Mar 2013 10:21:57 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I&#039;ve run into critique horror stories -- mostly from other people.  One guy online had a meltdown over some fairly simple comments and went on a personal attack, claiming that I didn&#039;t have the right to critique his work because I was published(!).  The weird part is that a second critiquer posted comments nearly identical to mine.  The only difference was that my handle clearly identified my gender; hers did not.

I also had this guy my in-person critique group (has folded).  He was a great writer of the word side, and supposedly an agent was interested once he fixed the manuscript (not sure if this was true, general politeness on the agent&#039;s side, or the writer lied).  But he didn&#039;t have to time to read, which showed in the story, because he had no story.  The result was that he&#039;d been revising it endlessly.  He was always the first one to volunteer for critiques.  He&#039;d dutifully type all the comments and then come back again for another critique with the same problems.  I didn&#039;t care how he fixed the problems!  But it was frustrating to spend the time critiquing it and see nothing change. The other writers reverted to praise for the quality of the words, and I finally got fed up and refused to critique him any more.  One day, he had a meltdown and revealed that he didn&#039;t care if it got published and that he was endlessly rewriting this monster of a book to get back at the government agency he worked for.  He didn&#039;t have time to read, bragged about agents wanting to publish his book, but didn&#039;t want it to be published so he could get revenge at where he worked?!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve run into critique horror stories &#8212; mostly from other people.  One guy online had a meltdown over some fairly simple comments and went on a personal attack, claiming that I didn&#8217;t have the right to critique his work because I was published(!).  The weird part is that a second critiquer posted comments nearly identical to mine.  The only difference was that my handle clearly identified my gender; hers did not.</p>
<p>I also had this guy my in-person critique group (has folded).  He was a great writer of the word side, and supposedly an agent was interested once he fixed the manuscript (not sure if this was true, general politeness on the agent&#8217;s side, or the writer lied).  But he didn&#8217;t have to time to read, which showed in the story, because he had no story.  The result was that he&#8217;d been revising it endlessly.  He was always the first one to volunteer for critiques.  He&#8217;d dutifully type all the comments and then come back again for another critique with the same problems.  I didn&#8217;t care how he fixed the problems!  But it was frustrating to spend the time critiquing it and see nothing change. The other writers reverted to praise for the quality of the words, and I finally got fed up and refused to critique him any more.  One day, he had a meltdown and revealed that he didn&#8217;t care if it got published and that he was endlessly rewriting this monster of a book to get back at the government agency he worked for.  He didn&#8217;t have time to read, bragged about agents wanting to publish his book, but didn&#8217;t want it to be published so he could get revenge at where he worked?!</p>
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		By: neenslewy		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[neenslewy]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Mar 2013 08:29:28 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[A great blog post. Taking criticism is always hard, it is personal for an artist, if it is constructive though it should always be taken on board. I think with writing this is essential. Once you have poured your soul into something it is not always easy to see the snags.
It is all about professionalism, that&#039;s the difference.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A great blog post. Taking criticism is always hard, it is personal for an artist, if it is constructive though it should always be taken on board. I think with writing this is essential. Once you have poured your soul into something it is not always easy to see the snags.<br />
It is all about professionalism, that&#8217;s the difference.</p>
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		By: A Writer&#8217;s Thick Skin: Do We Need One? &#124; The Goose&#039;s Quill		</title>
		<link>https://authorkristenlamb.com/2013/03/enemies-of-the-art-part-10-having-a-thin-skin/#comment-29988</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[A Writer&#8217;s Thick Skin: Do We Need One? &#124; The Goose&#039;s Quill]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Mar 2013 13:08:10 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[[...] Lamb tells us we need a thick skin, while Rachelle Gardner makes the case that we don’t. Jody Hedlund ignores the thickness of skin [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] Lamb tells us we need a thick skin, while Rachelle Gardner makes the case that we don’t. Jody Hedlund ignores the thickness of skin [&#8230;]</p>
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		By: donovanmneal		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[donovanmneal]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Mar 2013 23:33:05 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Again a great blog.  I appreciate what you bring in insight.  I had a beta reader critique my upcoming novel.  He was harsh!  But after I got over my feelings being hurt, (after all I did ask him to critique it!) I tried to really understand where he was coming from and attempted to incorporate his concerns.  It made my work better.  I think the problem is that we are pretty soft when it comes to accepting anything but praise.  Perhaps we identify too closely, and think our work is US.  I dunno.  In any event great blog.  Reblogged @ http://donovanmneal.wordpress.com/]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Again a great blog.  I appreciate what you bring in insight.  I had a beta reader critique my upcoming novel.  He was harsh!  But after I got over my feelings being hurt, (after all I did ask him to critique it!) I tried to really understand where he was coming from and attempted to incorporate his concerns.  It made my work better.  I think the problem is that we are pretty soft when it comes to accepting anything but praise.  Perhaps we identify too closely, and think our work is US.  I dunno.  In any event great blog.  Reblogged @ <a href="http://donovanmneal.wordpress.com/" rel="nofollow ugc">http://donovanmneal.wordpress.com/</a></p>
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