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		By: Favorite E-Reads of the Month: June 2017 &#124; Literate Lives		</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[[&#8230;] What Exactly Does Facebook &#8220;Friend&#8221; Mean? The Good, the Bad, &#038; the Ugly by Kristen Lamb, on Kristen Lamb: Author, Blogger, Social Media Jedi [&#8230;]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] What Exactly Does Facebook &#8220;Friend&#8221; Mean? The Good, the Bad, &amp; the Ugly by Kristen Lamb, on Kristen Lamb: Author, Blogger, Social Media Jedi [&#8230;]</p>
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		By: Kristen Lamb		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Kristen Lamb]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Jun 2017 13:43:44 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://authorkristenlamb.com/2014/06/what-exactly-does-facebook-friend-mean-the-good-the-bad-the-ugly/#comment-78314&quot;&gt;Kolin Mofield - Troublemaker&lt;/a&gt;.

They need to grow up. As authors we need to have the Adults Only table. You gonna act like a kid? Sit over there where they cry and rub mac and cheese in their hair.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://authorkristenlamb.com/2014/06/what-exactly-does-facebook-friend-mean-the-good-the-bad-the-ugly/#comment-78314">Kolin Mofield &#8211; Troublemaker</a>.</p>
<p>They need to grow up. As authors we need to have the Adults Only table. You gonna act like a kid? Sit over there where they cry and rub mac and cheese in their hair.</p>
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		By: Kolin Mofield - Troublemaker		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Kolin Mofield - Troublemaker]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Jun 2017 12:09:33 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Good post, Kristen. I am currently experiencing some blow-back from an email I sent that I thought was professional and to the point in an email. This is a mistake and the recipients perceived it as an attack. Should have picked up the phone and called and said &quot;Hey, what&#039;s the deal?&quot; I didn&#039;t. I have apologized for the hurt feelings, which was not my intent at all, but it has blown up into an all out - well - drama! The timing on this post is most appropriate. I am not sure what is going to happen, but perhaps seeing another side of it will help me understand their POV. Wish me luck!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good post, Kristen. I am currently experiencing some blow-back from an email I sent that I thought was professional and to the point in an email. This is a mistake and the recipients perceived it as an attack. Should have picked up the phone and called and said &#8220;Hey, what&#8217;s the deal?&#8221; I didn&#8217;t. I have apologized for the hurt feelings, which was not my intent at all, but it has blown up into an all out &#8211; well &#8211; drama! The timing on this post is most appropriate. I am not sure what is going to happen, but perhaps seeing another side of it will help me understand their POV. Wish me luck!</p>
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		By: Dwane Knott		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Dwane Knott]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Jun 2017 00:19:55 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://authorkristenlamb.com/2014/06/what-exactly-does-facebook-friend-mean-the-good-the-bad-the-ugly/#comment-77965&quot;&gt;Kathy Marker&lt;/a&gt;.

Seems there is nothing new to say that someone hasn&#039;t. Great post.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://authorkristenlamb.com/2014/06/what-exactly-does-facebook-friend-mean-the-good-the-bad-the-ugly/#comment-77965">Kathy Marker</a>.</p>
<p>Seems there is nothing new to say that someone hasn&#8217;t. Great post.</p>
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		By: Writing Links 6/26/17 &#8211; Where Genres Collide		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Writing Links 6/26/17 &#8211; Where Genres Collide]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Jun 2017 11:02:20 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[[&#8230;] https://authorkristenlamb.com/2014/06/what-exactly-does-facebook-friend-mean-the-good-the-bad-the-ugl&#8230; I haven’t been on FB all that much the past year with all the horribleness. I’m trying to get on a little more now but steer clear of certain posts. I could “unfriend” the person/s but not everything they say/do bothers me and I still like many of them. [&#8230;]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] <a href="https://authorkristenlamb.com/2014/06/what-exactly-does-facebook-friend-mean-the-good-the-bad-the-ugl&#038;#8230" rel="ugc">https://authorkristenlamb.com/2014/06/what-exactly-does-facebook-friend-mean-the-good-the-bad-the-ugl&#038;#8230</a>; I haven’t been on FB all that much the past year with all the horribleness. I’m trying to get on a little more now but steer clear of certain posts. I could “unfriend” the person/s but not everything they say/do bothers me and I still like many of them. [&#8230;]</p>
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		By: Stacy		</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Jun 2017 07:39:26 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://authorkristenlamb.com/2014/06/what-exactly-does-facebook-friend-mean-the-good-the-bad-the-ugly/#comment-77694&quot;&gt;Kristen Lamb&lt;/a&gt;.

It&#039;s too late to unfriend, block, etc. I deleted my FB account October 2016. 
For me, it was the best decision. 
I don&#039;t like it when complete strangers think they know me and try to tell me how to eat, what to eat, how to live, what celebrity to worship, etc. 
FB was starting to be more stressful than fun.
I&#039;ve had a video on my feed showing a Muslim man, who was in another country, beat a dog to death with a large branch. Dogs are considered the devil over there. I&#039;ve seen children beating hit and abused, the elderly and sickly being abused and some people shouting their abortion and acting happy about it. I just got so sick and tired of the negativity. There wasn&#039;t enough &#039;positivity&#039; to stay.   
So, for my peace of mind, I got rid of it altogether.
I don&#039;t need FB in my life. I don&#039;t need it to keep up with family. We have pot lucks and gatherings so I can see them and talk to them in person. 
I was fine before FB. And, I&#039;m much happier without it.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://authorkristenlamb.com/2014/06/what-exactly-does-facebook-friend-mean-the-good-the-bad-the-ugly/#comment-77694">Kristen Lamb</a>.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s too late to unfriend, block, etc. I deleted my FB account October 2016.<br />
For me, it was the best decision.<br />
I don&#8217;t like it when complete strangers think they know me and try to tell me how to eat, what to eat, how to live, what celebrity to worship, etc.<br />
FB was starting to be more stressful than fun.<br />
I&#8217;ve had a video on my feed showing a Muslim man, who was in another country, beat a dog to death with a large branch. Dogs are considered the devil over there. I&#8217;ve seen children beating hit and abused, the elderly and sickly being abused and some people shouting their abortion and acting happy about it. I just got so sick and tired of the negativity. There wasn&#8217;t enough &#8216;positivity&#8217; to stay.<br />
So, for my peace of mind, I got rid of it altogether.<br />
I don&#8217;t need FB in my life. I don&#8217;t need it to keep up with family. We have pot lucks and gatherings so I can see them and talk to them in person.<br />
I was fine before FB. And, I&#8217;m much happier without it.</p>
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		By: Kathy Marker		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Kathy Marker]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Jun 2017 13:17:45 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I love Facebook. It is my &quot;me time&quot; in the morning, before I begin my hectic day full of too much to do. I am kind of a loner because I keep so busy and work long hours, so my Facebook friends are who make me feel important and wanted.

I try to make sure I say happy birthday to everyone, and it makes my day when they all do the same for me, and when they comment or share my posts.

The only thing I don&#039;t like is that I don&#039;t automatically get everyone&#039;s feeds as I get more friends (only the ones who you respond to or like comments the most, I guess), so I need to remember to type in others&#039; names sometimes to see how they are doing.

Facebook has helped me to find so many people! By typing in their names and leaving messages to say who I was and why I was looking for them (I also messaged friends who may have connections to them) I was able to locate many missing classmates for a reunion, and am currently using it to find missing distant relatives for a family reunion.

I joined Facebook to keep up with news and pics of my kids and grandkids, and then extended it to people at church and work who I wanted to get to know better. I began asking to be friends of my cousins, and now I feel closer to that generation than to my cousins. Plus I see more pics of cousins that way.

I was careful to only accept friend requests from those who knew my other friends at first.
I learned that for MLMs you want to build more connections, since people buy what you sell because YOU (as a friend) are selling it more than because they want the product;so I began to allow more requests to be my friend.

I always check on new friend requests to see if they have pictures and other friends on their page. If they don&#039;t, and all they have is a profile pic and basic info, I won&#039;t friend them, thinking they may be stolen identities.

I&#039;ve only unfriended a few people. One had a lot of swearing and complaining, and a few others were the ex of other friends who were paranoid that the ex was checking up on them by accessing their page by clicking on them in my list of friends.

I&#039;ve been able to share my life with others, plus what I and others are selling, plus info about local events coming up. 

I love that we can create groups and events! I&#039;ve created groups for each side of my family as another way to keep up on them. I also have groups of recipes, religious thoughts and good to know about (how to clean things, etc).

It saves clutter around the house to have invites (and reminders about them) on Facebook instead of scattered around/buried at the house.

Yes, I am thankful for Facebook and all of my friends on it. I may not ever meet them, and may forget how we first connected, but I enjoy being a part of all their lives. It makes me feel special.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love Facebook. It is my &#8220;me time&#8221; in the morning, before I begin my hectic day full of too much to do. I am kind of a loner because I keep so busy and work long hours, so my Facebook friends are who make me feel important and wanted.</p>
<p>I try to make sure I say happy birthday to everyone, and it makes my day when they all do the same for me, and when they comment or share my posts.</p>
<p>The only thing I don&#8217;t like is that I don&#8217;t automatically get everyone&#8217;s feeds as I get more friends (only the ones who you respond to or like comments the most, I guess), so I need to remember to type in others&#8217; names sometimes to see how they are doing.</p>
<p>Facebook has helped me to find so many people! By typing in their names and leaving messages to say who I was and why I was looking for them (I also messaged friends who may have connections to them) I was able to locate many missing classmates for a reunion, and am currently using it to find missing distant relatives for a family reunion.</p>
<p>I joined Facebook to keep up with news and pics of my kids and grandkids, and then extended it to people at church and work who I wanted to get to know better. I began asking to be friends of my cousins, and now I feel closer to that generation than to my cousins. Plus I see more pics of cousins that way.</p>
<p>I was careful to only accept friend requests from those who knew my other friends at first.<br />
I learned that for MLMs you want to build more connections, since people buy what you sell because YOU (as a friend) are selling it more than because they want the product;so I began to allow more requests to be my friend.</p>
<p>I always check on new friend requests to see if they have pictures and other friends on their page. If they don&#8217;t, and all they have is a profile pic and basic info, I won&#8217;t friend them, thinking they may be stolen identities.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve only unfriended a few people. One had a lot of swearing and complaining, and a few others were the ex of other friends who were paranoid that the ex was checking up on them by accessing their page by clicking on them in my list of friends.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve been able to share my life with others, plus what I and others are selling, plus info about local events coming up. </p>
<p>I love that we can create groups and events! I&#8217;ve created groups for each side of my family as another way to keep up on them. I also have groups of recipes, religious thoughts and good to know about (how to clean things, etc).</p>
<p>It saves clutter around the house to have invites (and reminders about them) on Facebook instead of scattered around/buried at the house.</p>
<p>Yes, I am thankful for Facebook and all of my friends on it. I may not ever meet them, and may forget how we first connected, but I enjoy being a part of all their lives. It makes me feel special.</p>
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		By: Cheryl		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Cheryl]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Jun 2017 02:15:11 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Hi!
Have I ever been sucker-punched? Yep. My day job is veterinarian. Many of my friends also work in the field. I know they mean well but it kills a little piece of my soul every time I scroll past a video or meme showing abused animals. I understand this issue ridiculously well. I work daily to do my part, however small, to solve the problem. (I do low cost spay/neuter work to help end overpopulation and shelter euthanasia) I don&#039;t want to see it in my feed. If I want to overdose on feels, I&#039;ll listen to &#039;In the Arms of an Angel,&#039; I&#039;m sure I have it somewhere around here. I loved this post. I&#039;ll admit to being guilty of the political meme repost, there are issues that I feel very strongly about (I have pre-existing medical conditions and purchase my own health care. It&#039;s a horridly scary time), but I always try to think twice. I have definitely been on the verge of responding or reposting and just scrolled-on before I posted something that might put off some of my friends. I wish some of my friends would do the same. Let&#039;s all be honest, does anyone know of another person who&#039;s had their mind changed by a meme?
I love &#039;Author&#039;s in a Digital World,&#039; I&#039;m right in the middle of it now. I spend my free time writing romance like a good and proper introvert.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi!<br />
Have I ever been sucker-punched? Yep. My day job is veterinarian. Many of my friends also work in the field. I know they mean well but it kills a little piece of my soul every time I scroll past a video or meme showing abused animals. I understand this issue ridiculously well. I work daily to do my part, however small, to solve the problem. (I do low cost spay/neuter work to help end overpopulation and shelter euthanasia) I don&#8217;t want to see it in my feed. If I want to overdose on feels, I&#8217;ll listen to &#8216;In the Arms of an Angel,&#8217; I&#8217;m sure I have it somewhere around here. I loved this post. I&#8217;ll admit to being guilty of the political meme repost, there are issues that I feel very strongly about (I have pre-existing medical conditions and purchase my own health care. It&#8217;s a horridly scary time), but I always try to think twice. I have definitely been on the verge of responding or reposting and just scrolled-on before I posted something that might put off some of my friends. I wish some of my friends would do the same. Let&#8217;s all be honest, does anyone know of another person who&#8217;s had their mind changed by a meme?<br />
I love &#8216;Author&#8217;s in a Digital World,&#8217; I&#8217;m right in the middle of it now. I spend my free time writing romance like a good and proper introvert.</p>
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		By: Earnest Painter		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Earnest Painter]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Jun 2017 20:37:41 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[There are some people that I have to turn off on facebook because what they post is vile. I know them personally and they know me, so posting anti-gay hate messages sends a clear message to me. Posting certain political things sends a message that is almost a clear.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There are some people that I have to turn off on facebook because what they post is vile. I know them personally and they know me, so posting anti-gay hate messages sends a clear message to me. Posting certain political things sends a message that is almost a clear.</p>
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		By: Suzanne Lucero		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Suzanne Lucero]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Jun 2017 16:22:03 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://authorkristenlamb.com/2014/06/what-exactly-does-facebook-friend-mean-the-good-the-bad-the-ugly/#comment-77709&quot;&gt;Suzanne Lucero&lt;/a&gt;.

Forgot to !mention this was on Twitter, not FB. :-\]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://authorkristenlamb.com/2014/06/what-exactly-does-facebook-friend-mean-the-good-the-bad-the-ugly/#comment-77709">Suzanne Lucero</a>.</p>
<p>Forgot to !mention this was on Twitter, not FB. :-\</p>
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