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		By: robintvale		</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Apr 2019 05:16:52 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I have such a hard time letting go, I&#039;ll go back, again and again, looking for typos, misplaced punctuation errors (oh the horror... not being sarcastic they drive me nuts.;-;) This month has been a joy I&#039;m able to let go of looking for errors just enough to reveise—8 chapters.— Ya man, I&#039;m really pleased, only checked for errors a couple of times.  xD I&#039;ll do it later I want to finish this, the characters keep calling.

Cough a typo: I had never --head-- of the author but there were 14K reviews and overall 4 stars. (Die typos, die!) 

Makes a blank face. What?

I remember that first year I was asking for critiques from every self-proclaimed critic on Wattpad. That poor book I rewrote the first twenty chapters too many times to count. Thankfully I saved the original drafts just in case. Most of the critics were wonderful and taught me the basics. But I kept asking them &quot;just to check.&quot; and each person had different opinions what was right for my book and my characters, each one only would read 1-2 chapters. 

I can&#039;t please anyone one (well except for a few they like it.) but some would give really compelling reasons for this and that and... I was ignoring my own opinion. Fail.

I stopped asking for critiques for a while as I&#039;d discovered deep pov and felt it fit my story and characters so well that I revised the whole book. Sure it wasn&#039;t and still isn&#039;t perfect but it feels right. :D Butterflies and rainbows! 

:-x I don&#039;t advise asking for critiques on Wattpad when writing in deep pov, as 98% if the critics/other writers you know don&#039;t write in it nor are willing to listen. I&#039;m alone. Scary, ack! 

Oh well do or die time, right? 

I can come on here and go blah blah and chat with you though. ^-^ Well, when you have the time.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have such a hard time letting go, I&#8217;ll go back, again and again, looking for typos, misplaced punctuation errors (oh the horror&#8230; not being sarcastic they drive me nuts.;-;) This month has been a joy I&#8217;m able to let go of looking for errors just enough to reveise—8 chapters.— Ya man, I&#8217;m really pleased, only checked for errors a couple of times.  xD I&#8217;ll do it later I want to finish this, the characters keep calling.</p>
<p>Cough a typo: I had never &#8211;head&#8211; of the author but there were 14K reviews and overall 4 stars. (Die typos, die!) </p>
<p>Makes a blank face. What?</p>
<p>I remember that first year I was asking for critiques from every self-proclaimed critic on Wattpad. That poor book I rewrote the first twenty chapters too many times to count. Thankfully I saved the original drafts just in case. Most of the critics were wonderful and taught me the basics. But I kept asking them &#8220;just to check.&#8221; and each person had different opinions what was right for my book and my characters, each one only would read 1-2 chapters. </p>
<p>I can&#8217;t please anyone one (well except for a few they like it.) but some would give really compelling reasons for this and that and&#8230; I was ignoring my own opinion. Fail.</p>
<p>I stopped asking for critiques for a while as I&#8217;d discovered deep pov and felt it fit my story and characters so well that I revised the whole book. Sure it wasn&#8217;t and still isn&#8217;t perfect but it feels right. 😀 Butterflies and rainbows! </p>
<p>😡 I don&#8217;t advise asking for critiques on Wattpad when writing in deep pov, as 98% if the critics/other writers you know don&#8217;t write in it nor are willing to listen. I&#8217;m alone. Scary, ack! </p>
<p>Oh well do or die time, right? </p>
<p>I can come on here and go blah blah and chat with you though. ^-^ Well, when you have the time.</p>
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		By: Gal Hanukaev		</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Aug 2016 16:08:53 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Awh, love-hate relationship with perfectionism. I used to be obssesed with making sure everything is PERFECT before I am done. It was a nightmare because I was never done. I am glad I am over that nowadays because I am very happy with my posts thanks to that. Great post - thanks!
You are more than welcome to stop by :)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Awh, love-hate relationship with perfectionism. I used to be obssesed with making sure everything is PERFECT before I am done. It was a nightmare because I was never done. I am glad I am over that nowadays because I am very happy with my posts thanks to that. Great post &#8211; thanks!<br />
You are more than welcome to stop by 🙂</p>
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		By: Gal Hanukaev		</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Aug 2016 16:06:18 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://authorkristenlamb.com/2016/08/is-perfectionism-killing-your-success/#comment-68131&quot;&gt;ratherearnestpainter&lt;/a&gt;.

Haha, good one :)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://authorkristenlamb.com/2016/08/is-perfectionism-killing-your-success/#comment-68131">ratherearnestpainter</a>.</p>
<p>Haha, good one 🙂</p>
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		By: ratherearnestpainter		</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Aug 2016 21:10:57 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://authorkristenlamb.com/2016/08/is-perfectionism-killing-your-success/#comment-68130&quot;&gt;Melissa Lewicki&lt;/a&gt;.

My brother used to obsessively look at every little thing in his life to make sure he wasn&#039;t obsessing about it.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://authorkristenlamb.com/2016/08/is-perfectionism-killing-your-success/#comment-68130">Melissa Lewicki</a>.</p>
<p>My brother used to obsessively look at every little thing in his life to make sure he wasn&#8217;t obsessing about it.</p>
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		By: Melissa Lewicki		</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Aug 2016 20:17:11 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I heard a story years ago about a man who was a perfectionist and was sent to a therapist by his company. The therapist talked to him and pointed out the disadvantages to being a perfectionist. The man enthusiastically said he got it and that with the therapist&#039;s help he would be the best damn non-perfectionist the therapist had ever seen!!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I heard a story years ago about a man who was a perfectionist and was sent to a therapist by his company. The therapist talked to him and pointed out the disadvantages to being a perfectionist. The man enthusiastically said he got it and that with the therapist&#8217;s help he would be the best damn non-perfectionist the therapist had ever seen!!</p>
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		By: Top Picks Thursday! For Readers and Writers 08-11-2016 &#124; The Author Chronicles		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Top Picks Thursday! For Readers and Writers 08-11-2016 &#124; The Author Chronicles]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Aug 2016 17:05:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[[&#8230;] their books to be compelling and absorbing, but we can take revision too far. Kristen Lamb wonders if perfectionism is killing your success, while Sacha Black shows how to give your readers a book hangover in 3 easy [&#8230;]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] their books to be compelling and absorbing, but we can take revision too far. Kristen Lamb wonders if perfectionism is killing your success, while Sacha Black shows how to give your readers a book hangover in 3 easy [&#8230;]</p>
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		By: lorraineambers		</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Aug 2016 11:37:56 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I&#039;m afraid of what people say but realize, people can be mean or nasty for the fun of it. I love your donkey analogy. I&#039;ll try not to carry it.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m afraid of what people say but realize, people can be mean or nasty for the fun of it. I love your donkey analogy. I&#8217;ll try not to carry it.</p>
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		By: Writing Links in the 3s and 5&#8230;8/9/16 &#8211; Where Worlds Collide		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Writing Links in the 3s and 5&#8230;8/9/16 &#8211; Where Worlds Collide]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Aug 2016 11:10:30 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[[&#8230;] https://warriorwriters.wordpress.com/2016/08/02/is-perfectionism-killing-your-success/ Do you carry the donkey? [&#8230;]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] <a href="https://warriorwriters.wordpress.com/2016/08/02/is-perfectionism-killing-your-success/" rel="nofollow ugc">https://warriorwriters.wordpress.com/2016/08/02/is-perfectionism-killing-your-success/</a> Do you carry the donkey? [&#8230;]</p>
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		By: Courtney M. Wendleton		</title>
		<link>https://authorkristenlamb.com/2016/08/is-perfectionism-killing-your-success/#comment-68126</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Courtney M. Wendleton]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Aug 2016 08:44:08 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Reblogged this on &lt;a href=&quot;https://charliesangel0069.wordpress.com/2016/08/08/is-perfectionism-killing-your-success/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Books and More&lt;/a&gt;.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Reblogged this on <a href="https://charliesangel0069.wordpress.com/2016/08/08/is-perfectionism-killing-your-success/" rel="nofollow">Books and More</a>.</p>
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		By: Kat Magendie		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Kat Magendie]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Aug 2016 13:40:54 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[My first novel I wrote for just the sheer joy of it - because I was curious and because I loved the characters. The others followed and with each one I became doubtful and worried - money became an issue - either I made it and then lost it or lost it then made it or blah blah blah.

I didn&#039;t write a novel for over 2 years. I never thought I&#039;d be &quot;that author&quot; - the one who didn&#039;t write. I used to scoff at that. ha! Welp. Yeah.

Yesterday I started working on the novel I put down several years ago. the one that made ME happy - the one that I won&#039;t worry about sales or if anyone will like it. I like it. So. There I go and here I go.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My first novel I wrote for just the sheer joy of it &#8211; because I was curious and because I loved the characters. The others followed and with each one I became doubtful and worried &#8211; money became an issue &#8211; either I made it and then lost it or lost it then made it or blah blah blah.</p>
<p>I didn&#8217;t write a novel for over 2 years. I never thought I&#8217;d be &#8220;that author&#8221; &#8211; the one who didn&#8217;t write. I used to scoff at that. ha! Welp. Yeah.</p>
<p>Yesterday I started working on the novel I put down several years ago. the one that made ME happy &#8211; the one that I won&#8217;t worry about sales or if anyone will like it. I like it. So. There I go and here I go.</p>
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