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		By: Mike Gutowski		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Mike Gutowski]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Jul 2020 22:48:13 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I always enjoy your advice columns. Thanks for more wisdom.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I always enjoy your advice columns. Thanks for more wisdom.</p>
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		By: Kristen Lamb		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Kristen Lamb]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Jul 2020 18:08:35 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://authorkristenlamb.com/2020/07/advice-the-great-the-bad-good-intentions-turned-toxic-dogma/#comment-114406&quot;&gt;markofthefaerie&lt;/a&gt;.

It&#039;s good to hear. I need to write a blog. Been struggling lately. Introverts don&#039;t do too well in complete isolation. Been hard to maintain my spark :/]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://authorkristenlamb.com/2020/07/advice-the-great-the-bad-good-intentions-turned-toxic-dogma/#comment-114406">markofthefaerie</a>.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s good to hear. I need to write a blog. Been struggling lately. Introverts don&#8217;t do too well in complete isolation. Been hard to maintain my spark :/</p>
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		By: Marie Loughin		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Marie Loughin]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Jul 2020 16:02:04 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I have to say, this really struck a chord:  &quot;I can preach all day long about persistence and why emotions can&#039;t dictate putting your @$$ in the chair and getting words on a page---and have---but when you can&#039;t even make it out of bed?&quot;

I teach at a university and suddenly we had to flip everything to online learning (#COVIDsucks). It turns out recording lectures is so much more labor intensive than walking into a room and delivering a lecture. Plus, there&#039;s a lot more virtual hand-holding of students, who are suddenly robbed of access to their usual supports. So....zero time for writing.  Actually, less-than-zero turns out to be physically possible. But my writers&#039; group is all, &quot;But you have to carve out time for writing every day.&quot; Which makes me feel worse, because I70 students say I really can&#039;t.

So thank you for affirming/confirming the need to step away for a bit. Sometimes you do what you just gotta do.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have to say, this really struck a chord:  &#8220;I can preach all day long about persistence and why emotions can&#8217;t dictate putting your @$$ in the chair and getting words on a page&#8212;and have&#8212;but when you can&#8217;t even make it out of bed?&#8221;</p>
<p>I teach at a university and suddenly we had to flip everything to online learning (#COVIDsucks). It turns out recording lectures is so much more labor intensive than walking into a room and delivering a lecture. Plus, there&#8217;s a lot more virtual hand-holding of students, who are suddenly robbed of access to their usual supports. So&#8230;.zero time for writing.  Actually, less-than-zero turns out to be physically possible. But my writers&#8217; group is all, &#8220;But you have to carve out time for writing every day.&#8221; Which makes me feel worse, because I70 students say I really can&#8217;t.</p>
<p>So thank you for affirming/confirming the need to step away for a bit. Sometimes you do what you just gotta do.</p>
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		By: markofthefaerie		</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Jul 2020 14:38:11 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Personally, I love the fact that you QUIT the corporate world to become a coach of writers. You may not always know whose life you touch, but, Kristen, it has been your words of advice that have helped to keep me focused on my golden ring all these years, and now I&#039;ve published my first book! It will be released in September with book two in the series coming out in December. So thanks for all of your advice, words of wisdom and funny memes. Obviously, you weren&#039;t meant for a life of corporate sales or as a surgeon, and aren&#039;t we all fortunate for it? 
Thanks!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Personally, I love the fact that you QUIT the corporate world to become a coach of writers. You may not always know whose life you touch, but, Kristen, it has been your words of advice that have helped to keep me focused on my golden ring all these years, and now I&#8217;ve published my first book! It will be released in September with book two in the series coming out in December. So thanks for all of your advice, words of wisdom and funny memes. Obviously, you weren&#8217;t meant for a life of corporate sales or as a surgeon, and aren&#8217;t we all fortunate for it?<br />
Thanks!</p>
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		By: Advice: The Great, the Bad &#38; Good Intentions Turned Toxic Dogma &#8211; Written By Kristen Lamb &#8211; Writer&#039;s Treasure Chest		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Advice: The Great, the Bad &#38; Good Intentions Turned Toxic Dogma &#8211; Written By Kristen Lamb &#8211; Writer&#039;s Treasure Chest]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Jul 2020 10:01:37 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[[&#8230;] CONTINUE READING HERE [&#8230;]]]></description>
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		By: Brass Castle Arts		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Brass Castle Arts]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Jul 2020 02:20:01 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Most of those inspirational quotes are meaningless until that one time that they strike your heart exactly where you needed it. One trick is knowing yourself well enough to sort those that will never mean anything to you from those that have potential. Another trick is cruising through those you&#039;ve saved often enough to allow the one that speaks loud and clear and sends you reeling with its importance, here and now, for what and who you are today.  Tomorrow, it will once again join the ranks of the potential, so strike while the iron is hot!

I&#039;m always surprised when I go to my to--be-read pile of books and pull one that has sat so long it is furry with dust, one that I intended to read months or years ago, and I open it up and begin to read, and there, on that page there, see it? There is the diamond I needed this very day, winking and gleaming at me because it knew all along that I&#039;d find it eventually!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Most of those inspirational quotes are meaningless until that one time that they strike your heart exactly where you needed it. One trick is knowing yourself well enough to sort those that will never mean anything to you from those that have potential. Another trick is cruising through those you&#8217;ve saved often enough to allow the one that speaks loud and clear and sends you reeling with its importance, here and now, for what and who you are today.  Tomorrow, it will once again join the ranks of the potential, so strike while the iron is hot!</p>
<p>I&#8217;m always surprised when I go to my to&#8211;be-read pile of books and pull one that has sat so long it is furry with dust, one that I intended to read months or years ago, and I open it up and begin to read, and there, on that page there, see it? There is the diamond I needed this very day, winking and gleaming at me because it knew all along that I&#8217;d find it eventually!</p>
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		By: T.K. Thorne		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[T.K. Thorne]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 12 Jul 2020 23:49:20 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Kristin, I don&#039;t often pop in, but I just want to tell you how much I love reading your blogs. I learned something reading this one and it may have sent me off to write my own post (which won&#039;t be as clever or funny as yours, but I feel that little tickle that means I need to write about it and see where it goes). Two take-aways for me: Society&#039;s label on quitting and giving advice (which I do at every opportunity) is an expression of caring.  With those two strokes, you hit my buttons.  Thank you!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Kristin, I don&#8217;t often pop in, but I just want to tell you how much I love reading your blogs. I learned something reading this one and it may have sent me off to write my own post (which won&#8217;t be as clever or funny as yours, but I feel that little tickle that means I need to write about it and see where it goes). Two take-aways for me: Society&#8217;s label on quitting and giving advice (which I do at every opportunity) is an expression of caring.  With those two strokes, you hit my buttons.  Thank you!</p>
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		By: loisbaron		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[loisbaron]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 12 Jul 2020 00:51:39 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[My favorite quote is from a friend: &quot;Take my advice. Really! I&#039;m not using it.&quot;]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My favorite quote is from a friend: &#8220;Take my advice. Really! I&#8217;m not using it.&#8221;</p>
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		By: Kristen Lamb		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Kristen Lamb]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Jul 2020 20:32:31 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://authorkristenlamb.com/2020/07/advice-the-great-the-bad-good-intentions-turned-toxic-dogma/#comment-114398&quot;&gt;Roger Nay&lt;/a&gt;.

Probably. If you&#039;d seen some of my other fiction it might terrify you.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://authorkristenlamb.com/2020/07/advice-the-great-the-bad-good-intentions-turned-toxic-dogma/#comment-114398">Roger Nay</a>.</p>
<p>Probably. If you&#8217;d seen some of my other fiction it might terrify you.</p>
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		By: Roger Nay		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Roger Nay]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Jul 2020 20:31:24 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[After reading your blog for a year and watching two videos, I think Romi is at least 50% Kristen Lamb.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>After reading your blog for a year and watching two videos, I think Romi is at least 50% Kristen Lamb.</p>
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