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<p>Aspiring writers. There are so many out there. MILLIONS! BILLIONS (if we count bots). I just returned home from the <a href="https://idahowritersguild.org/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Idaho Writer&#8217;s Guild</a> Conference, where there were rooms and rooms full of aspiring writers.</p>



<p>Since y&#8217;all weren&#8217;t there, now it is your turn. I want anyone who refers to themselves as an aspiring writer to raise their hands. </p>



<p>No worries. </p>



<p>You are probably alone and only the pets can see you. Or, people around you already know you&#8217;re weird and won&#8217;t bat an eye.</p>



<p>Raise that hand! Aspiring writers? Anyone?</p>



<p>If you raised your hand, now I want you to take that hand and SLAP YOURSELF AND NEVER EVER REFER TO YOURSELF AS AN ASPIRING WRITER EVER AGAIN! </p>



<p>I&#8217;m watching you O_O.</p>



<p>I have people&#8230;everywhere&#8230;..</p>



<p>*cue creepy music*<br></p>



<p>Thing is, first of all, I would BET MONEY most of you already have a computer hard-drive FULL of short stories, poems, novels (finished, unfinished, good, bad, not fit to be let out among the human race for fear it might unleash the apocalypse). Point is y&#8217;all have written ZILLIONS of WORDS.</p>



<p>Meaning, writers <strong>write. </strong>You already ARE a writer. There is no try only DO. Aspiring is for wimps. This job is tough and it sure as <s>sh</s> sprinkles isn&#8217;t for everyone.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading"><strong>No More Aspiring Writer</strong>s</h2>



<div class="wp-block-image"><figure class="aligncenter size-full is-resized"><img decoding="async" src="https://authorkristenlamb.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/05/Screenshot-2023-05-24-at-12.28.30-PM.png" alt="aspiring writer, Yoda meme, there is no try only do, Kristen Lamb" class="wp-image-31060" width="598" height="434" srcset="https://authorkristenlamb.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/05/Screenshot-2023-05-24-at-12.28.30-PM.png 936w, https://authorkristenlamb.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/05/Screenshot-2023-05-24-at-12.28.30-PM-300x218.png 300w, https://authorkristenlamb.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/05/Screenshot-2023-05-24-at-12.28.30-PM-200x145.png 200w, https://authorkristenlamb.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/05/Screenshot-2023-05-24-at-12.28.30-PM-768x558.png 768w, https://authorkristenlamb.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/05/Screenshot-2023-05-24-at-12.28.30-PM-800x581.png 800w, https://authorkristenlamb.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/05/Screenshot-2023-05-24-at-12.28.30-PM-551x400.png 551w, https://authorkristenlamb.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/05/Screenshot-2023-05-24-at-12.28.30-PM-847x615.png 847w" sizes="(max-width: 598px) 100vw, 598px" /></figure></div>



<p>Today&#8217;s post is here to help y&#8217;all, recharge, reframe, regroup and hopefully have some laughs. Everything I mention, we will deep-dive&#8230;LATER.</p>



<p>Where was I? Ah yes&#8230;</p>



<p>QUIT being an aspiring writer. Feel free to refer to yourself as a <em>pre-published </em>author. If you have some moxie, go for pre-best-selling author. For those who have the ego of GOD like me? Pre-internationally-best-selling-global-dominating-mega-author.</p>



<p>That one can get long on a business card. So maybe an acronym PIBSGDMA?</p>



<p>Or not.</p>



<p>The point is that if we aspire to be a writer, that presumes we are not <em>already </em>a writer. How we approach this business is critical because the odds are NOT in our favor. We have better odds of winning the lottery <em>as we are struck by</em> <em>lightning </em>than we do of being a mega-author.</p>



<p>Yes, I know. You feel super inspired.</p>



<p>One of the reasons the odds are SO stacked against us is simple. We can be our own worst enemies. Time to get out of our own way!</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading"><strong>What Kind of Writer Do You Want to Be?</strong></h2>



<div class="wp-block-image"><figure class="aligncenter size-medium is-resized"><img decoding="async" src="https://authorkristenlamb.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/05/Screenshot-2023-05-24-at-12.30.55-PM-300x206.png" alt="Shakespeare with pink sunglasses, Kristen Lamb, aspiring" class="wp-image-31061" width="620" height="426" srcset="https://authorkristenlamb.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/05/Screenshot-2023-05-24-at-12.30.55-PM-300x206.png 300w, https://authorkristenlamb.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/05/Screenshot-2023-05-24-at-12.30.55-PM.png 1024w, https://authorkristenlamb.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/05/Screenshot-2023-05-24-at-12.30.55-PM-200x138.png 200w, https://authorkristenlamb.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/05/Screenshot-2023-05-24-at-12.30.55-PM-768x528.png 768w, https://authorkristenlamb.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/05/Screenshot-2023-05-24-at-12.30.55-PM-800x550.png 800w, https://authorkristenlamb.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/05/Screenshot-2023-05-24-at-12.30.55-PM-582x400.png 582w, https://authorkristenlamb.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/05/Screenshot-2023-05-24-at-12.30.55-PM-847x582.png 847w" sizes="(max-width: 620px) 100vw, 620px" /></figure></div>



<p>First, the good news. This is a FABULOUS time to be a writer. In Ye Olde Publishing Days, there were essentially two ways to be published&#8212;traditional and vanity. Either you fought through gatekeepers or you paid to play.</p>



<p>You were constrained to what the market wanted. If you didn&#8217;t write that, or your first book was a stinker? NEXT! You were also limited in how many books you could produce. There was really no outlet for the I-write-a-book-a-month-<s>cyborgs</s>-writers.</p>



<p>***Yes, my jealousy showing a little.</p>



<p>Today? If you write poetry, novellas, shorts, flash fiction, haiku, recipes, haiku-recipes&#8230;it DOES NOT MATTER. Why? Because you literally can publish anything you want. If you want to publish a book a week, you can. </p>



<p>If you write super LOOOOONG and only want to publish your 230,000 word tomes once a year? You can do that, too (and in like 17 different ways).</p>



<p>Now, the bad news. </p>



<p>Writers can publish anything they want and how often they want.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">Herein Lies the Problem</h2>



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<p>With SO many changes in the market, have you taken time to decide what KIND of writer you want to be?</p>



<p>When I started writing, TWO choices. Then, as the digital age happened, we could go indie, then hybrid. So, FOUR choices.</p>



<p>Now? I literally cannot write out all the new ways there are to get our work in front of readers (and be PAID). Between so many avenues in self-pub and indie, then domestic and foreign markets, it is dizzying (and for other days and other posts).</p>



<p>There are some really successful writers out there, and not all of them *clutches pearls* write full-time. Why? Because the market is so oversaturated it is STOOPID.</p>



<p>It passed being STUPID in 2013 and is now STOOPID.</p>



<p>The odds of being to able to write full-time for a living and still sleep and, like, see the sun are not great&#8230;but not impossible. And if writing full-time as your sole income is your goal? Go for it!</p>



<p>But if publishing a rich, robust, deeply introspective novel once a year is your jam? Do it. If you love writing literary candy corn and can put out 3 or 5 or more books a year, do it! </p>



<p>Something in between? Do it. Until you can&#8217;t do it, then revisit the plan.</p>



<p>My point is, y&#8217;all need to get specific. Other than <em>aspiring, </em>what kind of writer are you? How do you define success?</p>



<p>Heck! I had to get <em>specific</em>. If you read <a href="https://authorkristenlamb.com/2023/05/rejection-what-is-really-in-control/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">my last post</a> I wrote it while curled in the fetal position listening to DIDO. I was BURNED out. So burned out I couldn&#8217;t see the forest for the rose bushes (I was a bit lost)&#8230;which is why conferences are <em>invaluable</em> and for another post.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading"><strong>No More Aspiring</strong></h2>



<div class="wp-block-image"><figure class="aligncenter size-full is-resized"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" src="https://authorkristenlamb.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/05/Screenshot-2023-05-24-at-12.25.44-PM.png" alt="Jackie Chan meme, just stop, aspiring, Kristen Lamb" class="wp-image-31062" width="725" height="442" srcset="https://authorkristenlamb.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/05/Screenshot-2023-05-24-at-12.25.44-PM.png 938w, https://authorkristenlamb.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/05/Screenshot-2023-05-24-at-12.25.44-PM-300x183.png 300w, https://authorkristenlamb.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/05/Screenshot-2023-05-24-at-12.25.44-PM-200x122.png 200w, https://authorkristenlamb.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/05/Screenshot-2023-05-24-at-12.25.44-PM-768x468.png 768w, https://authorkristenlamb.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/05/Screenshot-2023-05-24-at-12.25.44-PM-800x488.png 800w, https://authorkristenlamb.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/05/Screenshot-2023-05-24-at-12.25.44-PM-656x400.png 656w, https://authorkristenlamb.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/05/Screenshot-2023-05-24-at-12.25.44-PM-847x517.png 847w" sizes="(max-width: 725px) 100vw, 725px" /></figure></div>



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<p>So, now you (hopefully) have read this far and you can stop calling yourself an aspiring writer. You already are a writer. OWN IT!</p>



<p>If you still aren&#8217;t convinced, I can tell you aspiring writers do exist. These are the people who say things like:</p>



<p><em>Yeah, I loved &#8220;Game of Thrones.&#8221; One day when I have enough time I&#8217;d like to write a fantasy novel.</em></p>



<p>Sure, because writing frigging GoT is just like whipping out an EMAIL! And <em>time</em> is the only thing separating them from being George R.R. Martin. </p>



<p>For the record, writing does not work like evolution. </p>



<p>*shock face*</p>



<p>We cannot type a couple sentences then wait thirty million years and magically have a series. Or maybe we can, but we won&#8217;t be around to see the fruit of our labors. But, I am still betting on NO. </p>



<p>In <em>writing</em> there is a DIVINE CREATOR&#8212;US&#8211;and intelligent design (if we do our jobs well).</p>



<p>*rant over&#8230;.mostly*</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading"><strong>What is a <s>Aspiring</s> REAL Writer?</strong></h2>



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<p>I have no idea why we writers get all existential with their careers. Can you image how weird it would be if dentists wandered around wondering if they were a <em>real </em> dentist?</p>



<p>Where was I?</p>



<p>Writers.</p>



<p>Look it up. Writers write. It is literally <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Writer">the definition</a>. But what is YOUR definition of a &#8220;real writer&#8221;?</p>



<p>If the definition of a real writer only included those who solely write novels for a living, then we just excluded Edgar Allen Poe, Charles Dickens, Ernest Hemingway, and Mark Twain (to name a couple). Many of the greatest writers in history (and even today) still have a day job for a number of reasons.</p>



<p>Maybe they love the stability that goes with having a job and benefits. Because they aren&#8217;t HYSTERICAL they won&#8217;t be able to&#8212;I dunno&#8212;pay the power bill, they&#8217;re able to write and publish because of things like&#8230;they can SEE better when the lights work.</p>



<p>Amazing, right?</p>



<p>Some of us also keep a day job because we like doing OTHER things that are not writing. We need to be able to get out of our own heads because it&#8217;s dark and spooky in there. Other writers DO have the ability to write full-time (maybe your partner works) and so go you! </p>



<p>Still real.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading"><strong>What Works? What Doesn&#8217;t?</strong></h2>



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<p>When we shift our mindset from aspiring, our goals shift from passive to active. So long as I was <em>aspiring</em> I floated along, believing there was only one way (my way) even though it wasn&#8217;t working.</p>



<p>Because I pivoted in my mindset and profession, this gave me permission to try new things, I could incorporate what worked, what didn&#8217;t and at least I gave it a shot. </p>



<p>Just like I&#8217;m asking you to quit calling yourselves aspiring writers, I also want you to quit believing there is only ONE way.</p>



<p>Unless you&#8217;re already happily writing a book a month, Netflix is making them ALL into movies, and you like to relax in a bathtub full of royalty money.</p>



<p>***If this is you, um. Please <s>email</s> adopt me.</p>



<p>On the other hand? If you aren&#8217;t finishing? You&#8217;re burning out? Your books are good but aren&#8217;t selling? Your way used to work but isn&#8217;t working now? </p>



<p>Try something different. </p>



<p>Possibly reframe how you are thinking and question it. Perhaps your definitions, goals, or expectations need to be dusted off and revised.</p>



<p>I also want to send you over to Becca Syme&#8217;s <a href="https://betterfasteracademy.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Better-Faster Academy</a>. Do yourself a favor and buy HER book, <a href="https://betterfasteracademy.com/books-by-becca-syme/dear-writer-you-need-to-quit/">Dear Writer, You Need to Quit</a>. Then READ IT. Buy ALL of them, but at least start there.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading"><strong>This is Me Post-Becca&#8230;</strong></h2>



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<p>When I went to this conference, my head was so far up my tail, doctors could have performed a colonoscopy <strong>and</strong> an eye exam at the same time. I was overburdened, helpless and hopeless. On the flight home, I <s>read</s> snorted Becca&#8217;s book like a line of cocaine. </p>



<p>SOOOO many answers.</p>



<p>I have many more incredible resources to share with you guys, experts who are NOT ME. That is what&#8217;s fabulous about our industry. Books are not so cost-prohibitive we can only buy ONE. Also, not all experts have all answers so you have a TEAM of us out there to help you.</p>



<p>Meaning, expect <s>to drink from a firehose</s> more in coming posts. And, since y&#8217;all are all now <em>pre-published </em>writers, you will need the best team you can get.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading"><strong>What Are Your Thoughts?</strong></h2>



<p>I LOVE hearing from you. Are you calling yourself a pre-published writer now? Were you &#8220;today-years-old&#8221; when you realized there were more than, like THREE, paths to publish? Are you relieved that you are still a REAL writer even if you always have a day job?</p>



<p>Were you losing hope that there wasn&#8217;t a home for your writing? Did you think you had failed because you&#8217;d never revised your definition of what a REAL writer was?</p>



<p>I love hearing from you in the comments! It helps fuel me to keep on going. After seventeen years, I&#8217;m apparently powered by caffeine and compliments. </p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading"><strong>I REWARD Initiative!</strong></h2>



<p>To prove it and show my love, for the month of MAY, everyone who leaves a comment, I will put your name in a hat. </p>



<p>If you comment and link back to my blog on <em>your</em> blog, you get your name in the hat twice. What do you win? </p>



<p>The unvarnished truth from yours truly (and maybe even time with an agent). </p>



<p>I will pick a winner once a month and it will be a critique of the first 20 pages of your novel, or your query letter, or your synopsis (5 pages or less). People with superlative writing, I (with your permission) have been known to pass you onto an agent. </p>



<p><strong>I actually have landed agents for people who&#8217;ve won this contest.</strong> Agents like me because I make their lives easier.</p>



<p>Anyway, I look forward to reading your comments and your writing!</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://authorkristenlamb.com/2023/05/aspiring-writers-need-to-quit-now/">Aspiring Writers Need to Quit NOW</a> appeared first on <a href="https://authorkristenlamb.com">Kristen Lamb</a>.</p>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>But saying we want to go PRO is easier than knowing what one actually looks like. To be blunt, there are far more people "playing writer" than "going pro." Even those of us who write for a living? It is an everyday battle against entropy. It's really easy to wake up one day and realize you're lying to yourself.</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://authorkristenlamb.com/2016/02/want-to-be-a-successful-writer-ten-ways-to-go-pro/">Want to Be a Successful Writer? Ten Ways to GO PRO!</a> appeared first on <a href="https://authorkristenlamb.com">Kristen Lamb</a>.</p>
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<p>We have done a lot of talking about FREE! in the past couple of months. And I will continue to boycott Huffington Post , because I believe they&#8217;re parasites who&#8217;ve helped set this industry-wide trend that writers only need to be paid with &#8220;exposure.&#8221; Owned by AOL (a.k.a. Verizon) they have the ability to pay, just don&#8217;t want to and unless writers start valuing what they do? They won&#8217;t pay.</p>
<p>Ever.</p>
<p>Not until we GO PRO.</p>
<p>To catch up on the rant, read <a href="https://warriorwriters.wordpress.com/2016/02/19/shame-on-you-aolhuffington-no-more-literary-booty-calls/" target="_blank">No More Literary Booty Calls</a>.</p>
<p>But back to this &#8220;valuing what we do.&#8221; I feel one of the reasons the arts are particularly vulnerable to plundering is many writers (artists) have a chronic case of low self-esteem.</p>
<p>Yes, society and pop culture are partly to blame.</p>
<p>It seems movies cast only two types of writers&#8212;The Starving Hack and the Bazillionaire Celebrity Author. Thus, if we aren&#8217;t flying off to Paris to fact-check? People assume that, by default, we&#8217;re writing bad haiku on Starbuck&#8217;s napkins in between shooting up and borrowing money from our mom.</p>
<h2><b>We Do It To Ourselves</b></h2>
<p><a href="https://warriorwriters.files.wordpress.com/2014/11/screen-shot-2014-08-25-at-9-43-37-am.png"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-16455" src="https://warriorwriters.files.wordpress.com/2014/11/screen-shot-2014-08-25-at-9-43-37-am.png?w=620" alt="Screen Shot 2014-08-25 at 9.43.37 AM" width="620" height="335" srcset="https://authorkristenlamb.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/screen-shot-2014-08-25-at-9-43-37-am.png 871w, https://authorkristenlamb.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/screen-shot-2014-08-25-at-9-43-37-am-600x324.png 600w, https://authorkristenlamb.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/screen-shot-2014-08-25-at-9-43-37-am-300x162.png 300w, https://authorkristenlamb.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/screen-shot-2014-08-25-at-9-43-37-am-768x415.png 768w" sizes="(max-width: 620px) 100vw, 620px" /></a></p>
<p>First a little test. If you are reading this and are an aspiring author raise your hand. It&#8217;s okay. No one is around. You can do it.</p>
<p>Got your hand up?</p>
<p>NOW SLAP YOURSELF WITH THAT HAND AND NEVER DO THAT AGAIN!</p>
<p>I love you *smooch*.</p>
<p>There IS no &#8220;aspiring.&#8221; Aspiring is for the weak. It takes real guts to be an author. Feel free to call yourself pre-published, but use aspiring?</p>
<p>I. CAN. FIND. YOU. O_o</p>
<p>Do or do not, there is no try.</p>
<h2><strong>Understand Consumers WANT What We Do</strong></h2>
<p><div id="attachment_19092" style="width: 415px" class="wp-caption aligncenter"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" aria-describedby="caption-attachment-19092" class=" wp-image-19092" src="https://authorkristenlamb.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/02/screen-shot-2016-02-29-at-12-15-12-pm.png" alt="Self-published book and now a major motion picture. BOO-YAH!" width="415" height="621" srcset="https://authorkristenlamb.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/02/screen-shot-2016-02-29-at-12-15-12-pm.png 530w, https://authorkristenlamb.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/02/screen-shot-2016-02-29-at-12-15-12-pm-201x300.png 201w" sizes="(max-width: 415px) 100vw, 415px" /><p id="caption-attachment-19092" class="wp-caption-text">Self-published book and now a major motion picture. BOO-YAH!</p></div></p>
<p>In any business, the first thing one has to determine is:</p>
<h2><span style="color:#0000ff;"><strong><em>Will consumers want this?</em></strong></span></h2>
<p>For some strange reason, whenever I rail about PAY THE WRITER there is this knee-jerk assumption we writers are foisting something fundamentally unwanted onto the unsuspecting public and if they read our stuff they&#8217;re doing us a favor.</p>
<p>Untrue.</p>
<p><strong>People want good books. </strong>If people didn&#8217;t want good books, Amazon would not have invested God knows how much into swiping the industry from the legacy publishers.</p>
<p>But, aside from our insecurity, the other component that undermines authors is a failure to truly GO PRO. Note I said <em>good books. </em>A pro doesn&#8217;t sell crap. A pro doesn&#8217;t try to get people to pay for books rife with horrific plot problems, editing mistakes, shoddy grammar and formatting that looks like it was done by a detoxing drunk.</p>
<p>PRO comes from the word, <em>professional. </em></p>
<p>But saying we want to go PRO is easier than knowing what one actually <em>looks like. </em>To be blunt, there are far more people &#8220;playing writer&#8221; than &#8220;going pro.&#8221; Even those of us who write for a living? It is an everyday battle against entropy. It&#8217;s really easy to wake up one day and realize you&#8217;re lying to yourself.</p>
<p>So I made a list. For me. For you.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m a giver.</p>
<p>I would love to say that I always did these things, but I didn&#8217;t. For a long time I was a lazy, entitled, whining slacker more in love with the idea of being a writer than actually doing the work involved. Much of this I had to learn the hard way, so I hope to up your game with these TEN WAYS TO GO PRO!</p>
<h2><strong>1&#8212;Pros Get Our A$$es to WORK</strong></h2>
<p>Writers write. We don&#8217;t write when we feel like it or when the muse strikes. Truthfully, the muse is like that fun drunken cousin who passes through and gives us a good time, but there&#8217;s no way in hell we&#8217;d ever hire the guy because he&#8217;s about as dependable as Texas weather.</p>
<p>Almost every morning, I am up at 4:00 a.m. Most people don&#8217;t work well that early, but I do. Fewer distractions. I always at least check in at 4 a.m. if there are any early birds who need a partner.</p>
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<p>This morning I had three thousand words written before 7:00 a.m. Every morning I hold writing sprints on <a href="http://wanatribe.com">W.A.N.A. Tribe. </a>All morning long, we go in 40 minute bursts and there is a team for accountability and to drive and push you beyond your comfort zone. I <em>know</em> I am a lazy slacker so I created this to keep me accountable!</p>
<p>Duh.</p>
<p>But any guess how many writers actually show for the sprints?</p>
<p>Usually it&#8217;s the same group of ten people out of over 2700…and I am one of them. As a group, I bet we&#8217;ve <em>easily </em>written a million words since we started meeting back in November. Every member of the sprinting group finished NaNoWriMo in less than 20 days.</p>
<p>We are still there. Five days a week 9:00 CST. Every day.</p>
<p>The same few people.</p>
<p>A huge reason most writers never make it big is simple. They don&#8217;t write.</p>
<h2><strong>2&#8212;Pros Write No Matter WHAT</strong></h2>
<p><div id="attachment_16015" style="width: 373px" class="wp-caption aligncenter"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" aria-describedby="caption-attachment-16015" class=" wp-image-16015" src="https://warriorwriters.files.wordpress.com/2014/08/screen-shot-2014-08-13-at-1-01-35-pm.png?w=620" alt="Kristen with Shingles…and YES I still wrote." width="373" height="310" srcset="https://authorkristenlamb.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/screen-shot-2014-08-13-at-1-01-35-pm.png 873w, https://authorkristenlamb.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/screen-shot-2014-08-13-at-1-01-35-pm-600x498.png 600w, https://authorkristenlamb.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/screen-shot-2014-08-13-at-1-01-35-pm-300x249.png 300w, https://authorkristenlamb.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/screen-shot-2014-08-13-at-1-01-35-pm-768x638.png 768w" sizes="(max-width: 373px) 100vw, 373px" /><p id="caption-attachment-16015" class="wp-caption-text">Kristen last year with Shingles…and YES I still wrote.</p></div></p>
<p>2012-2015 was a <em>living nightmare</em> for me. Our lives had SO much go wrong, I was seriously wondering if voodoo was somehow involved and despite enduring tragedy after tragedy? I still showed up.</p>
<p>Even with Shingles. Hey, I was going to be in pain anyway? Might as well channel it and distract myself.</p>
<p>Life <em>will</em> go wrong and sometimes the only thing we can control is simply showing up. There will never be an ideal time to write. If one comes our way? Fabulous! But don&#8217;t count on it. <span style="color:#0000ff;"><strong>Never underestimate the power of simply showing up.</strong></span></p>
<h2><strong>3&#8212;Pros Appreciate We Are Selling a PRODUCT</strong></h2>
<p>Writers don&#8217;t get a pass. We are a business. We are entrepreneurs bringing a product to market. This is true no matter which publishing path we take. Some writers frown on us indie/self-published folks, but what do y&#8217;all think that query is? It&#8217;s a business proposal.</p>
<p>An agent is inspecting our product (book) and our brand (platform) and determining potential market value. They are asking, <em>Can we SELL this? </em>And, if so, <em>How many can we sell? </em></p>
<p>That&#8217;s it.</p>
<p>We now have a choice to circumnavigate gatekeepers, but we still are responsible for bringing a solid product to the marketplace. Pros know that.</p>
<h2><strong>4&#8212;Pros INVEST</strong></h2>
<p><div id="attachment_12690" style="width: 389px" class="wp-caption aligncenter"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" aria-describedby="caption-attachment-12690" class="size-full wp-image-12690" src="https://warriorwriters.files.wordpress.com/2013/08/screen-shot-2013-08-09-at-9-16-02-am.png" alt="Via Flickr Creative commons, courtesy of Tax Credits." width="389" height="531" srcset="https://authorkristenlamb.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/08/screen-shot-2013-08-09-at-9-16-02-am.png 389w, https://authorkristenlamb.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/08/screen-shot-2013-08-09-at-9-16-02-am-220x300.png 220w" sizes="(max-width: 389px) 100vw, 389px" /><p id="caption-attachment-12690" class="wp-caption-text">Via Flickr Creative commons, courtesy of Tax Credits.</p></div></p>
<p>Since we appreciate we are a product and want to make it the best out there (because we KNOW there is a crap-ton of competition), we invest in ways to make our product the best and to stand out. Since we <em>create</em> the product, we invest time and money in training, conferences, and classes. Once we have a product, we invest in proper editing and cover design.</p>
<p>We invest in <em>things that save us time.</em> You can either spend five years figuring out your brand or hire a pro help you do it in days (yes, I am for hire <img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/15.0.3/72x72/1f609.png" alt="😉" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" /> ).</p>
<p>I suck at organization and detail so I outsource to an assistant. My new assistant Raidon cleaned out over 67K e-mails and organized them for me.  That was almost five hours I could do blogging, writing, teaching and consulting.</p>
<p>Trust me. Worth every penny.</p>
<h2><strong>5&#8212;Pros Study the Successful</strong></h2>
<p>We don&#8217;t need to reinvent the wheel. Seriously. Most people believe that success is tremendously elusive, but if we study successful people? Most of them did a lot of the same things. I am a HUGE, HUGE fan of Mark Cuban. Every writer needs THIS book; <em><a href="http://www.audible.com/pd/Business/How-to-Win-at-the-Sport-of-Business-Audiobook/B00U373VRO" target="_blank">How to Win at the Sport of Business.</a> </em>It&#8217;s a short audio book and cost me $5, but WOW.</p>
<p>So much of what he talks about can be applied to writers.</p>
<h2><strong>6&#8212;Pros Get Paid to Learn</strong></h2>
<p>Meaning? They are never &#8220;too good&#8221; to accept a job. This one really applies to the newbies starting out. In the beginning we have to earn a reputation worth paying for. In the meantime? Take every opportunity you get and knock it outta the park!</p>
<p>When I realized I wanted to go pro with writing? I took every writing job I could get, figuring I was being paid to learn. Whether it was copy for a chiropractor&#8217;s web site or specs for software? I did it even though some of those jobs were so boring I wanted to hurl myself in traffic. They didn&#8217;t pay much in money (not at first) but I was being <em>paid to learn.</em></p>
<p>Every one of those jobs paid off.</p>
<h2><strong>7&#8212;Pros FAIL…A LOT</strong></h2>
<p><div id="attachment_11842" style="width: 375px" class="wp-caption aligncenter"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" aria-describedby="caption-attachment-11842" class=" wp-image-11842" src="https://warriorwriters.files.wordpress.com/2013/06/storm.jpg" alt="Original image via Melissa Bowersock WANA Commons" width="375" height="469" srcset="https://authorkristenlamb.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/06/storm.jpg 603w, https://authorkristenlamb.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/06/storm-600x750.jpg 600w, https://authorkristenlamb.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/06/storm-240x300.jpg 240w" sizes="(max-width: 375px) 100vw, 375px" /><p id="caption-attachment-11842" class="wp-caption-text">Original image via Melissa Bowersock WANA Commons</p></div></p>
<p>We make bad calls, hire the wrong people, write bad blogs and even worse books. By failing a lot we learn what works and what is a waste of time. My failures taught me far more than &#8220;success&#8221; ever did.</p>
<p>Failure taught me humility and how to have staying power. It&#8217;s easy to be <em>in the game</em> when we&#8217;re winning, but to keep pressing after you&#8217;ve been sucker punched…then run over and then hit by lightning?</p>
<p><em>That </em>is what separates the wanna-be&#8217;s from the pros.</p>
<h2><strong>8&#8212;Pros are Honest</strong></h2>
<p><div id="attachment_12406" style="width: 620px" class="wp-caption aligncenter"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" aria-describedby="caption-attachment-12406" class="size-large wp-image-12406" src="https://warriorwriters.files.wordpress.com/2013/07/tar.jpg?w=620" alt="Original Image via Flickr Creative Commons, courtesy of Mike Spasoff" width="620" height="411" srcset="https://authorkristenlamb.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/07/tar.jpg 787w, https://authorkristenlamb.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/07/tar-600x398.jpg 600w, https://authorkristenlamb.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/07/tar-300x199.jpg 300w, https://authorkristenlamb.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/07/tar-768x509.jpg 768w" sizes="(max-width: 620px) 100vw, 620px" /><p id="caption-attachment-12406" class="wp-caption-text">Original Image via Flickr Creative Commons, courtesy of Mike Spasoff</p></div></p>
<p>We are only as strong as our greatest weakness. Pros are honest with where they&#8217;re failing. If the books aren&#8217;t selling and the feedback is about the writing? We take more classes and write more to put those lessons in action and hone those skills. Hire a rockstar editor.</p>
<p>Again, remember that I suck at organization? Took me a long time to admit that. I bought Daytimers and apps and gadgets and OH DEAR GOD I CANNOT SHOW MY FACE IN CONTAINER STORE&#8230;</p>
<p><em>THE SHAME!</em></p>
<p>I realized it ain&#8217;t gonna happen. Instead of trying to fit this round writer into a square hole? Outsource.</p>
<h2><strong>9&#8212;Pros Never Stop Training</strong></h2>
<p><div id="attachment_10607" style="width: 490px" class="wp-caption aligncenter"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" aria-describedby="caption-attachment-10607" class=" wp-image-10607" src="https://warriorwriters.files.wordpress.com/2013/03/screen-shot-2013-03-26-at-6-34-31-pm.png?w=620" alt="Image via Flickr Creative Commons, courtesy of Anamorphic Mike." width="490" height="343" srcset="https://authorkristenlamb.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/screen-shot-2013-03-26-at-6-34-31-pm.png 637w, https://authorkristenlamb.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/screen-shot-2013-03-26-at-6-34-31-pm-600x420.png 600w, https://authorkristenlamb.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/screen-shot-2013-03-26-at-6-34-31-pm-300x210.png 300w" sizes="(max-width: 490px) 100vw, 490px" /><p id="caption-attachment-10607" class="wp-caption-text">Image via Flickr Creative Commons, courtesy of Anamorphic Mike.</p></div></p>
<p>How successful would a boxer be if he sat on the couch watching inspirational movies about boxing but never actually hauled his tail into a gym? Never worked with a coach to refine technique? Never studied other boxers and their moves? Never sparred to know his weaknesses?</p>
<p>I <em>inhale</em> books. If I am not at my computer working, I am reading…everything. If I am driving or cleaning or cooking? I am also listening to an audiobook. I never watch TV or movies that I am not making notes, busting apart character, plot, dialogue. Where did the story shine? Where did it fail? How would I have improved it?</p>
<p>Pros generally have TWO speeds.</p>
<p>On.</p>
<p>Unconscious.</p>
<p>Even &#8220;rest&#8221; serves the goals and is active.</p>
<h2><strong>10&#8212;Pros Understand &#8220;Fail to Plan, Plan to Fail&#8221;</strong></h2>
<p>Most new businesses fail because of a lack of a solid business plan. Same with writers. Which publishing path are you choosing? Why? Do you even know why? What are the advantages and disadvantages of each? Seriously, there is no &#8220;right&#8221; or &#8220;wrong&#8221; way to publish, but how we are going to get our product to market is a big deal.</p>
<p>What are your goals? Do you have this mapped out? Do you have contingency plans? Have you done a S.W.O.T. analysis? What is your marketing plan? What is your branding plan? What is your sales plan?</p>
<p>Back to what we started with and the whole kerfluffle of FREE!</p>
<p>How and WHY are we using FREE!?</p>
<h2><strong><span style="color:#0000ff;">One of the reasons FREE! has gotten so out of hand is that writers are not using it strategically as part of a larger sales plan</span>.</strong></h2>
<p>It&#8217;s why I am offering a new class, <a href="http://wanaintl.com/event-registration/?ee=393" target="_blank">Making Money with FREE!</a> As a bonus for this class, my friend <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Warren-Omissions-James-Flynn-Thriller-ebook/dp/B00GJ371PE/ref=sr_1_10?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1456746934&amp;sr=8-10&amp;keywords=Jack+Patterson" target="_blank">Jack Patterson</a> who&#8217;s so far sold over 150,000 books to come and teach us how to ROCK the newsletter. Sign up before March 7th for $20 off. This is in excess of two hours of training and the recording (as always) comes with purchase.</p>
<p>Just by doing this class, you get several makes of a pro&#8212;showing up, investing, training, and learning from people who&#8217;ve already done something <em>successfully. </em> I will be learning too. Instead of me writing a terrible newsletter no one wants to open and spending the next three years figuring it out? I am paying Jack to help me teach this class.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m no dummy <img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/15.0.3/72x72/1f61b.png" alt="😛" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" /> .</p>
<p>I am very proud of all of you for even being here and reading this blog. That is the mark of a pro. Instead of watching funny videos? You are here being <del>yelled at</del> inspired.</p>
<p>What are your thoughts? Did you fall for my trick and raise your hand? I hope you didn&#8217;t leave a mark. Do you struggle with taking yourself seriously? Do you put everyone and everything ahead of your writing? Does your writing take backseat to everyone else&#8217;s wants and needs? Did you change that and see results when you started doing things PROS do?</p>
<p>I really DO love hearing from you!</p>
<p>To prove it and show my love, for the month of MARCH, everyone who leaves a comment I will put your name in a hat. If you comment and link back to my blog on your blog, you get your name in the hat twice. What do you win? The unvarnished truth from yours truly. I will pick a winner once a month and it will be a critique of the first 20 pages of your novel.</p>
<h2><strong><span style="color:#0000ff;">For those who need help building a platform and keeping it SIMPLE, pick up a copy of my latest social media/branding book<em> <span style="color:#ff0000;">Rise of the Machines&#8212;Human Authors in a Digital World</span></em> on</span> <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Rise-Machines-Human-Authors-Digital-ebook/dp/B00DP7II4A/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1408979136&amp;sr=8-2&amp;keywords=Rise+of+the+machines" target="_blank">AMAZON</a>, <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/book/rise-of-the-machines/id727223890?mt=11" target="_blank">iBooks</a>, or <a href="http://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/rise-of-the-machines-kristen-lamb/1117165949?ean=2940148405238" target="_blank">Nook</a>. </strong></h2>
<p>The post <a href="https://authorkristenlamb.com/2016/02/want-to-be-a-successful-writer-ten-ways-to-go-pro/">Want to Be a Successful Writer? Ten Ways to GO PRO!</a> appeared first on <a href="https://authorkristenlamb.com">Kristen Lamb</a>.</p>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Does anyone question the team with the group shot on the top of K-2? Do they say, "Well, you slid at least twenty times and nearly fell into an ice cave. Oh and then there was that delay because of weather. And you had to have a team of sherpas to help you. Your summit doesn't count." No. Either we finish the book or we don't. Whether it took ten revisions, or a hundred, no one cares.</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://authorkristenlamb.com/2014/02/journey-from-aspiring-dreamer-to-hardened-professional-author/">Journey from Aspiring Dreamer to Hardened Professional Author</a> appeared first on <a href="https://authorkristenlamb.com">Kristen Lamb</a>.</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><div id="attachment_14318" style="width: 620px" class="wp-caption aligncenter"><a href="https://authorkristenlamb.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/01/screen-shot-2014-01-07-at-9-40-38-am.png"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" aria-describedby="caption-attachment-14318" class="size-full wp-image-14318" alt="Original image courtesy of flowcomm, via Flickr Commons" src="https://authorkristenlamb.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/01/screen-shot-2014-01-07-at-9-40-38-am.png" width="620" height="387" srcset="https://authorkristenlamb.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/01/screen-shot-2014-01-07-at-9-40-38-am.png 871w, https://authorkristenlamb.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/01/screen-shot-2014-01-07-at-9-40-38-am-600x375.png 600w, https://authorkristenlamb.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/01/screen-shot-2014-01-07-at-9-40-38-am-300x187.png 300w, https://authorkristenlamb.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/01/screen-shot-2014-01-07-at-9-40-38-am-768x480.png 768w" sizes="(max-width: 620px) 100vw, 620px" /></a><p id="caption-attachment-14318" class="wp-caption-text">Original image courtesy of flowcomm, via Flickr Commons</p></div></p>
<p>One of the goals of this blog has always been to prepare new writers and develop professionals. In order to do this, I blog on any number of topics, ranging from social media to search engines, craft to family. Some posts are just to give you a laugh because Lord knows we always need more of those. Writers are human beings, and, if we focus only on one aspect of our growth, we can become unbalanced or even deformed.</p>
<p>When it comes to developing/ growing from that wide-eyed dreamer with a gift for words and transforming into a pro who can withstand the unrelenting crucible of this business, balance is vital. Why? I can tell you from experience that when we reach the mountain&#8217;s &#8220;summit&#8221;, the view is breathtaking…until we see the next mountain, the taller mountain. Oh, and to reach the top of that taller mountain, it means…</p>
<p>Another trip through the valley. *head desk*</p>
<p><strong>Just Do It</strong></p>
<p>I despise the term &#8220;aspiring writer.&#8221; We don&#8217;t &#8220;aspire&#8221; to get out of the chair. Either we sit or we stand. We choose and no one can make that decision but us. I prefer the term &#8220;pre-published&#8221; writer, because this makes us accountable and shifts our thinking. To continue the metaphor of mountain-climbing, there is a transition every climber goes through…from looking at pictures of people on top of Mt. Everest to making the decision to DO IT.</p>
<p>This person might be at the gym training, lifting weights, doing cardio, perhaps even learning to climb on walls and developing the strength, endurance and flexibility to climb a mountain. Training is key.</p>
<p><div id="attachment_13429" style="width: 471px" class="wp-caption aligncenter"><a href="https://authorkristenlamb.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/10/seal.jpg"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" aria-describedby="caption-attachment-13429" class="size-full wp-image-13429" alt="Image and quote courtesy of SEAL of Honor on Facebook." src="https://authorkristenlamb.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/10/seal.jpg" width="471" height="359" srcset="https://authorkristenlamb.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/10/seal.jpg 471w, https://authorkristenlamb.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/10/seal-300x229.jpg 300w" sizes="(max-width: 471px) 100vw, 471px" /></a><p id="caption-attachment-13429" class="wp-caption-text">Image and quote courtesy of SEAL of Honor on Facebook.</p></div></p>
<p>We can&#8217;t just buy a bunch of fancy gear and show up in Nepal unless we really want to DIE. Climbing a mountain is a lot like successfully publishing. There are no shortcuts. We can&#8217;t pay guides to do what we must do ourselves. Yes, sherpas are key, but they can&#8217;t make the climb for us. They are there to assist.</p>
<p>But we still must make the initial decision to go for it.</p>
<p>Then we train.</p>
<p><strong>If We&#8217;re Comfortable We Aren&#8217;t Growing</strong></p>
<p>I have never climbed a mountain, but I did live my teens and twenties like a Mountain Dew commercial (and feel that every time the weather changes). I used to rock climb and go bouldering. Bouldering is particularly terrifying because boulders are BIG and they are ROUND. Round is particularly terrifying because to comes with BLIND SPOTS.</p>
<p>Bouldering is used to hone skills for bigger climbs. It develops strength, callouses, flexibility, and teaches that sometimes we have to reach for what we can&#8217;t see.</p>
<p>The going up the boulder is scary enough, but the coming down? THAT&#8217;S when it gets truly terrifying. Look down? That&#8217;s when you see how far you could really fall, and since bouldering is done without ropes? Ouch. And though it might sound cliche…don&#8217;t look down. Another interesting part of bouldering is one must reach hands and feet into the unseen and trust you can grab hold.</p>
<p>Same with writing. We will have to reach into the unseen or remain stuck. We have to let go of one place to make it to the next and there are no guarantees, which is why it is important to&#8230;</p>
<p><strong>Have a Network of Support</strong></p>
<p>I&#8217;m sure there are lone writers out there who eat nails for breakfast and spit them out as mega-best-selling novels, but they&#8217;re rare. These guys remind me of free-soloing climbers. These climbers scale huge rock faces using strength and body position to stay on the rock without the use of ropes.</p>
<p>I did this <em>once&#8230;</em>and slid a good fifty feet down a rock face, bruising, cutting and scraping every exposed area of my body. In my opinion, there are two types of free-soloers…Grand Champion and Stuff on a Rock. After getting a taste of being Stuff on a Rock? Ropes were AWESOME from that point on. Ego wasn&#8217;t worth it.</p>
<p>Same in writing. It&#8217;s one of the reasons I created the <a href="http://wanaintl.com/wanacon-feb2014/wanacon-giveaway/" target="_blank">WANA community on Facebook</a> and #MyWANA on Twitter and even <a href="http://wanatribe.com" target="_blank">WANATribe</a> (a social network for writers and creative professionals). We need help. We need <del>ropes </del>other writers to be there when we are scraped and bruised and even when we fall. Because if we <em>don&#8217;t </em>fall, then we really aren&#8217;t trying that hard.</p>
<p>If we have a system of support, then falls can be setbacks instead of catastrophes. Writing has historically been a lonely and solitary profession because of the nature of our world. Now? We can choose. Other writers can anchor us, be there to lift us.</p>
<p>We can return the favor. We can also learn from writers who&#8217;ve scaled this mountain before. We don&#8217;t have to reinvent a new path. The top of the mountain remains pretty much the same. No one cares how we get there, so long as we get there.</p>
<p>Does anyone question the team with the group shot on the top of K-2? Do they say, &#8220;Well, you slid at least twenty times and nearly fell into an ice cave. Oh and then there was that delay because of weather. And you had to have a team of sherpas to help you. Your summit doesn&#8217;t <em>count.&#8221; </em>No. Either we finish the book or we don&#8217;t. Whether it took ten revisions, or a hundred, no one cares.</p>
<p>All they care about is, did we <del>summit</del> FINISH?</p>
<p><strong>The Air Gets Thinner The Higher We Climb</strong></p>
<p>Sure the view is breathtaking, but nothing grows at the top of the mountain. No one can <em>live </em>there. The air is too thin, the terrain too unstable, the weather too brutal, and there&#8217;s no food at the top of the mountain.</p>
<p>Each work is it&#8217;s own climb. Maybe it&#8217;s a short story (boulder) to train for bigger things. But I feel many of us (and I was guilty, too) believe that we can live on the summit, that the summit means we have made it and it will somehow be easier. This is a lie. When you land an agent, it&#8217;s the beginning of a new mountain. When we finish a book or even make a best-seller list, it only makes way for a new mountain. No one stays at the top of a best-seller list indefinitely.</p>
<p>We can&#8217;t<i> </i>live there.</p>
<p>The summit of any endeavor should be savored and rejoiced, but it comes with the acceptance that now we have to climb back into the valley because the valley is for the living and the growing ;).</p>
<p>What are your thoughts? Have you ever metaphorically slid down a cliff on your face? What did you learn? Are you grateful for new challenges or overwhelmed?</p>
<p>***For some guidance and training regarding mountain climbing becoming successfully published, feel free to check the announcements below.</p>
<p>I love hearing from you!</p>
<p>To prove it and show my love, for the month of February, <strong>everyone who leaves a comment I will put your name in a hat. If you comment and link back to my blog on your blog, you get your name in the hat twice. </strong>What do you win? The unvarnished truth from yours truly. <strong>I will pick a winner <em>once a month</em> and it will be a critique of <strong>the first 20 pages of your novel</strong>, <strong>or your query letter, or your synopsis (5 pages or less)</strong></strong><strong>. </strong></p>
<p><span style="color:#0000ff;"><strong>ANNOUNCEMENTS, AGENTS &amp; FREE STUFF:</strong></span></p>
<p>Thinking about attending #WANACon or already signed up?</p>
<p>On Wednesday, <span style="color:#ff0000;"><strong>check out a FREE presentation</strong></span> by one of WANACon&#8217;s presenters, Gabriela Pereira, on: &#8220;How to Get the Most Out of A Conference.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8211; To join the presentation, go to <a href="http://wanaintl.com/event-registration/?ee=229" target="_blank">WANA International&#8217;s </a>site at 8PM Eastern (New York) time / 5pm Pacific (Seattle) time.<br />
&#8211; On the right sidebar, select &#8220;WANACon Open House &#8211; Feb 12, 2014&#8221; from the drop-down box under &#8220;Conference Hall A&#8221;.<br />
&#8211; Enter your name and the password &#8220;welcome&#8221;, and then click &#8220;Join.&#8221;</p>
<p>Click here to <a href="http://www.google.com/calendar/event?eid=b2J1b3A5MmpxdmkwZWlla3FzNHQ1YzAxZXMgMW1jMzhpbHR0MGFpM2g4b3Axb3NxZzY3YTRAZw&amp;ctz=America%2FNew_York" target="_blank">ADD THIS EVENT</a> to your Google calendar.</p>
<p>The Open House starts one hour earlier if you want to work out tech gremlins, check out the classroom, or visit with others.</p>
<p>Join us at WANACon (THE global virtual writing conference) on February 21 &amp; 22, <span style="color:#ff0000;"><strong>use promo code &#8220;Valentine&#8221; for $15 off the registration fee</strong> </span>this week. Three agents covering almost every fiction category <a href="http://wanaintl.com/wanacon-feb2014/wanacon-feb-2014-agent-pitches/" target="_blank">are also taking pitches in private, virtual, webcam &amp; audio-capable meeting rooms</a>.</p>
<p><span style="color:#0000ff;"><strong>And if you sign up, <a href="http://wanaintl.com/wanacon-feb2014/wanacon-giveaway/" target="_blank"><span style="color:#0000ff;">REMEMBER to enter the Rafflecopter</span></a> this week for your chance to win a refund of your conference registration fee!</strong></span></p>
<p>The post <a href="https://authorkristenlamb.com/2014/02/journey-from-aspiring-dreamer-to-hardened-professional-author/">Journey from Aspiring Dreamer to Hardened Professional Author</a> appeared first on <a href="https://authorkristenlamb.com">Kristen Lamb</a>.</p>
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