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		<title>Branding for Authors&#8212;When Do We NEED Marketing &#038; Advertising?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 09 May 2017 16:31:50 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Okay so last time we talked about experts and why we need to be careful who we are listening to. Sure some &#8220;experts&#8221; are really predators. Others mean well, they just aren&#8217;t a good fit for what an author needs. Here&#8217;s a simple truth that a lot of writers miss and this is so fundamental. &#8230; </p>
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<p>Okay so last time we talked about experts and <a href="https://authorkristenlamb.com/2017/05/social-media-for-authors-beware-of-experts/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">why we need to be careful who we are listening to</a>. Sure some &#8220;experts&#8221; are really predators. Others mean well, they just aren&#8217;t a good fit for what an author needs.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s a simple truth that a lot of writers miss and this is so fundamental. <strong>Marketing and advertising are NOT brand and platform.</strong> These are not all synonyms and interchangeable.</p>
<p>Brand/Platform and Marketing/Advertising are distinctively different activities and when writers don&#8217;t understand this? They have panic attacks, get overwhelmed and start requesting information on-line for dental hygienist schools while drinking straight from the spout on the boxed wine.</p>
<p>You can do this. Calm down. Breathe.</p>
<p>My expertise is in helping you guys build the brand and the platform. I am NOT an expert on advertising and marketing. I have no interest in being one either. But what can often happen is that writers believe they need marketing and advertising experts when in fact, they are not yet ready for that.</p>
<h2><strong>Brand and Platform</strong></h2>
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<p>Brands can be built any number of ways. In the olden days, brands and platforms for novelists could only be built ONE way. Books. Good books. And the more the better. Since there was no regular interface with an author, the singular interaction one could have with an author was through the stories he/she wrote.</p>
<p>This is STILL the strongest way to create a brand and platform and the reason is this. It takes an average of 12-15 hours of undivided attention to complete a novel. This is a LOT of intimate time with a person. I can&#8217;t remember the last time I spent 12-15 hours of undivided attention with my husband or child. This immersion creates a profound intimacy in regards to the feelings a reader has for the author.</p>
<p>One of the reasons that the mega authors don&#8217;t have to work terribly hard at social media is they already put in their time through lots and lots of BOOKS. I am finishing the unabridged version of Stephen King&#8217;s &#8220;It.&#8221; This means once I finish I will have spent (just with that one book) FOURTY-FIVE HOURS of time with King (and this is not the first King book I have read).</p>
<h3><strong>Thus the successful authors of the pre-digital age came onto the social media scene with an established brand and platform.</strong></h3>
<p>And all social media does is help keep that thriving. Ads and marketing also do very well for these authors because they are already household names. One does not have to be an avid reader or member of a book club to recognize the name J.K. Rowling. Walk through any airport and all you see is James Patterson books.</p>
<p>For the author emerging onto the digital scene who cannot already put NYTBSA in front of her name, who does not have an extensive backlist, there is some work to be done regarding building a brand and platform since you don&#8217;t have one. This is where I come in.</p>
<p>Other than books, how can you establish a brand (what people think when they see your name) and a platform (people who will eventually be interested in buying books). My training is to cultivate that following (those who know you, your voice, your books) and those relationships (those who care) and you can get all of that in one book, <em><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Rise-Machines-Human-Authors-Digital-ebook/dp/B00DP7II4A" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Rise of the Machines</a></em>. I also offer training to make your books (product) as strong as possible thereby enhancing your BRAND.</p>
<p><strong>BRAND&#8212;&gt; WHAT IS IT?</strong></p>
<p><strong>PLATFORM&#8212;&gt; THOSE WHO KNOW AND CARE WHAT IT IS</strong></p>
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<p>The problem with some &#8220;experts&#8221; we mentioned last time is they want to skip steps. We can&#8217;t blast out newsletters to people who don&#8217;t <strong>know</strong> us let alone care to hear from us. We need to do some relationship building and establish trust and rapport.</p>
<p>This is not something that can be outsourced or automated. We need to do the work. And any expert who tries to skip this fundamental step of brand and platform-building? I&#8217;d think twice before handing over money.</p>
<p>Regular companies offering services or products (restaurants, bars, computer services, vegan body wash) can do this, but that is because they have the big budgets to saturate with ads and marketing. Yet, I will point out that most of these ventures fail. When we rely on ad saturation it is expensive and risky.</p>
<p>But we (authors) obviously don&#8217;t stop with just the brand (books/blogs) and platform, and this is where experts REALLY come in handy.</p>
<p>If <strong>brand</strong> is WHAT IS IT? And <strong>platform</strong> is WHO CARES? Then marketing and advertising are simply magnifying these two things that already exist.</p>
<h2><strong>Marketing &amp; Advertising</strong></h2>
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<p>As I just mentioned, marketing and advertising can only enhance what already exists. Ads work for Starbucks because there is one on every corner and they have a known reputation.</p>
<p>Marketing works for Kia because people need cars and see Kias on the road all the time. We know what they are. We KNOW what a Starbucks is. We know what Levis are. We know what all these &#8220;things for sale&#8221; are and probably have formed an opinion or impression&#8230;which is why it makes sense to use advertising and marketing.</p>
<p>As writers, will eventually need marketing and advertising and I am here to deliver a simple yet possibly uncomfortable truth.</p>
<p>Money and time are in a reciprocal relationship. The more time we spend cultivating the brand and the platform, the less money we will have to fork out on marketing and advertising. The less time we spend cultivating the brand and platform the more money we will have to fork out in marketing and advertising.</p>
<h3><strong>See, when we try to make marketing and advertising take the place of the platform and brand? That can get REALLY expensive. </strong></h3>
<p>We can feel free to write the book on our own, never be on social media then hire a marketing team, but the sheer volume of ad saturation it will take to garner attention? That&#8217;s gonna cost big.</p>
<p>I love marketing and advertising people, but here&#8217;s the deal, they are marketers not magicians. The more we do our part (write books, build a social media following, blog), the more they have to work with. The more people already KNOW us. We get a lot more bang for our buck.</p>
<p>A lot of writers are paying lots of money for these large email lists to blast out newsletters to people who don&#8217;t know them and who never signed up to hear from them in the first place.</p>
<p>This has the same ROI as those folks who blast out messages that we have an inheritance in Ghana somewhere if only we will wire five grand via Western Union. Sure, some people DO bite, but you have to send a LOT of emails to get any return.</p>
<p>What then happens is the writer blows through a lot of money needlessly for no real results.</p>
<p>Very often I hear disenchanted authors who gripe the their book isn&#8217;t selling because they don&#8217;t have the mega marketing budgets of the NY heavy hitters. Here&#8217;s the deal though. NYC spends that kind of cash on Stephen King, and George R.R. Martin, and James Patterson because most folks in the Western world recognize the brand.</p>
<p>One doesn&#8217;t have to be an avid reader to know Stephen King writes the scary stuff. These authors have a brand and that makes the ads have a good ROI. To do this for an unknown author? Better to pile cash in the floor and set it on fire (my POV).</p>
<p>Thus, when we are looking for experts we will fare better if we appreciate that brand/platform is separate from ads/marketing. There are some really brilliant book marketing people out there and even dedicated experts like Rachel Thompson who teach writers how to do a lot of this for themselves.</p>
<p>She&#8217;s also a great person to go to to find those folks with the marketing mojo you need for your book and I strongly recommend checking out her blog <a href="http://badredheadmedia.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Bad Redhead Media</a>.</p>
<p>In the end, remember, experts are great when we find the right ones. The cool part about the digital age is we can look around, make friends and get opinions and referrals from those we trust. And yes, &#8220;goofing off&#8221; on Facebook or Instagram is platform building. You are forging relationships. Write the books, make the connections and then, once you are ready? These marketing mavens will be happy to dazzle you!</p>
<p>What are your thoughts? Do you have any pressing questions?</p>
<p>I LOVE hearing from you guys!</p>
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		<title>Selling Our Books on Social Media&#8211;Don&#039;t Be a Personal Space Invader</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>For those of you who&#8217;ve been following me for a while, you know that my methods are very different, and my advice often runs contrary to what other experts are saying. Well, that&#8217;s because I&#8217;m right and they&#8217;re wrong :D. Joking! Okay, maybe only halfheartedly. There are a handful of common practices encouraged by other &#8230; </p>
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<p>For those of you who&#8217;ve been following me for a while, you know that my methods are very different, and my advice often runs contrary to what other experts are saying. Well, that&#8217;s because I&#8217;m right and they&#8217;re wrong :D. Joking! Okay, maybe only halfheartedly.</p>
<p>There are a handful of common practices encouraged by other social media experts that bother me deeply. I feel that, as we shift from the TV-Industrial complex of the past century and into the Digital Age, we are becoming more of a global village. Information no longer runs one direction, from sender to receiver. Why? Because the medium has changed. The medium always affects communication, and yet too many teachings out there are failing to account for this shift.</p>
<p><strong>I Heard You the First 20 Times</strong></p>
<p>Recently, another social media expert wrote a blog about the value of repetition on social media. I respectfully disagree. I feel that the paradigm has shifted and so has the medium. As the medium changed, society, culture and values shifted as well.</p>
<p>For instance, we never had America + Television. Once television became a part of our everyday life, America was different. It could not go back to the way it was before television. The change was like a chemical change, a cake that could not be un-baked. The culture changed. Our habits, language, expectations and definitions of &#8220;truth&#8221; all shifted.</p>
<p>Same with social media.</p>
<p>In the traditional paradigm, &#8220;air space&#8221; cost money. To put out an ad, a commercial spot on television or even an ad on radio cost money. Even printing off flyers and paying someone to stuff paper under windshield wipers cost money. This &#8220;cost barrier&#8221; was a sort of gatekeeper that naturally decreased the number of people who would be &#8220;advertising&#8221; their products.</p>
<p>Then came the Internet and social media.</p>
<p>Now it is FREE! for <em>everyone </em>to talk about goods and services non-stop. The sheer volume of people all pitching their services renders them invisible at best and highly annoying at worst. There is a lot about the new publishing paradigm that I love, but it also has created some serious problems. Now that <em>everyone </em>can be published, we are inundated with constant pitching to buy books or download free books or read reviews for books.</p>
<p>I do not believe in repetition for the sale. Why? Because it stands out so much and people often are offended. Posting multiple times a day about our book for sale is like us going to a cocktail party and opening a card table to take book orders. The medium has changed and so have the rules.</p>
<p>Yes, it is important to let people know we have a book to offer, but <em>how we do that </em>has changed.</p>
<p>In the TV-Industrial complex, people merely received information. There was no dialogue, so no social rules applied. We didn&#8217;t take offense when we saw a commercial on TV&#8230;but the TV wasn&#8217;t our &#8220;friend.&#8221;</p>
<p><strong>Language Matters</strong></p>
<p>In the Golden Age of TV and Advertising, we accepted that commercials were just part of having entertainment on television. We didn&#8217;t &#8220;own&#8221; any of that airspace, so we willingly acquiesced. Social media changed this dynamic, and, for the first time in human history, the Internet gave us virtual territory.</p>
<p>Tom Anderson was highly intuitive when he called his new social network (2003) MYSPACE. Humans are territorial. Our Facebook wall is literally OUR WALL. When strangers post ads in &#8220;our space&#8221; it is irritating and personal.</p>
<p><strong>Don&#8217;t be a personal space invader.</strong></p>
<div id="attachment_8633" style="width: 434px" class="wp-caption aligncenter"><a href="https://authorkristenlamb.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/10/screen-shot-2012-10-10-at-10-11-28-am.png"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" aria-describedby="caption-attachment-8633" class=" wp-image-8633 " title="Screen Shot 2012-10-10 at 10.11.28 AM" src="https://authorkristenlamb.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/10/screen-shot-2012-10-10-at-10-11-28-am.png" alt="" width="434" height="314" srcset="https://authorkristenlamb.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/10/screen-shot-2012-10-10-at-10-11-28-am.png 733w, https://authorkristenlamb.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/10/screen-shot-2012-10-10-at-10-11-28-am-600x434.png 600w, https://authorkristenlamb.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/10/screen-shot-2012-10-10-at-10-11-28-am-300x217.png 300w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 434px) 100vw, 434px" /></a><p id="caption-attachment-8633" class="wp-caption-text">&#8220;Careful, Jim. I think it has a book for sale.&#8221;</p></div>
<p>We cannot get the benefits of social norms unless we respect social norms. On social media, we use terms like &#8220;friend&#8221; and &#8220;Likes.&#8221; To humans, these words have meaning, whether we consciously acknowledge this or not. When I &#8220;befriend&#8221; someone on Twitter and they immediately DM me with a spammy message to buy their book? I am offended.</p>
<p>Why?</p>
<p>Because social norms regulate social media. Fail to appreciate this and there are consequences.</p>
<p>Social norms don&#8217;t mean we are against buying stuff from &#8220;friends,&#8221; but it does mean we are part of a social dance that we are wise to respect. For instance, how many of you have kids? How many of you have had your kids come home with boxes of candy to sell for school? Who did you go to first to offload overpriced crappy candy? Family. Then friends. Then probably some coworkers.</p>
<p>Why?</p>
<p>Because no one wants to go door-to-door selling anything, let alone $4 stale candy bars.</p>
<p>But see how the social norms guided who you would ask, and in what order, and even <em>how </em>you would ask for a sale? Many of those closer relationships are happy to buy overpriced candy, but only because they <em>know you. </em></p>
<p>Let&#8217;s look at this scenario instead.</p>
<p>What if I complimented a woman in the grocery store, then got her chatting about the items in her basket and what she was cooking for dinner? At first she is hesitant but as we chat she lets down her guard and talks about her cat Muffin, and how she likes to bake cookies for the church. And just about the time she is comfortable talking to me, I ask, &#8220;Wow, if your church likes cookies, they would LOVE chocolate bars. Would you like to buy some candy?&#8221;</p>
<p>Yeah. I bet she couldn&#8217;t get to <del>her wallet</del> the door fast enough.</p>
<p><strong>What To Do?</strong></p>
<p>All right. Some of you might be panicking a little right now. <em>But Kristen, how can we ever sell our book if we can&#8217;t TALK about it? </em>I never said we couldn&#8217;t talk about our books. I said we had to adjust our approach. Sure, tweet about your book <em>once, MAYBE twice a day. </em>But, make sure to sandwich those tweets between a lot of authentic interaction. <strong>It should be clear to anyone looking at our interaction history that we are on social media primarily for the purpose of being social, NOT using Twitter of Facebook as free ad space.</strong></p>
<p>We just need to apply the Golden Rule here.</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t just blast out a bunch of links all day. Are you lacking for stuff to read? I know I&#8217;m not. How many of you woke up this morning and said, &#8220;Gee, you know what I need? MORE information. I don&#8217;t have enough. In fact, I have far too much free time I need to fill.&#8221;</p>
<p>Most people are on social media because humans are wired to be social. We are looking for connections, not another news feed with commercial breaks. If we wanted that, we&#8217;d just watch TV.</p>
<p><strong>Interruption Marketing DOESN&#8217;T Work</strong></p>
<p>When was the last time a writer tweeted several times a day about her book and that prompted you to drop everything and go buy? When was the last time you clicked on a Facebook ad to buy something? If ads on social media were so great, then why did General Motors pull their campaign with Facebook?</p>
<p>One of the reasons I encourage writers to blog is that a blog is very useful for passive selling. Every one of you who follow this blog know about my two books even though I have never tweeted about them and never posted about them on Facebook.</p>
<p>How is this?</p>
<p>I serve <em>first </em>with a blog and then, at the end of my post, I mention my books or any WANA International classes that might be of interest. So I am promoting my books and classes, thousands of times a day if we look at my unique visits&#8230;but I am not doing so intrusively. Most of you are not offended that I mention my books, namely because I gave freely, and thus reciprocation on your part feels natural. You don&#8217;t feel like I am ramming book ads down your throat.</p>
<p><strong>No one likes a personal space invader.</strong></p>
<p>My attitude is that some of you will read, click and even buy, but those not interested can simply scan past the information. You might not buy one of my books today, but you know about them. So when the day comes that you decide you need to blog, my book will be in your mental databanks.</p>
<p>Since you have come to <em>my corner of cyberspace </em>it doesn&#8217;t feel invasive when I mention my books and classes, because I mention them in MY space, not YOURS.</p>
<p>Selling this way has an additional benefit. It makes it easier and less icky for others to support us.</p>
<p>For instance, when I helped NYTBSA James Rollins with his book launch in the summer, I encouraged him to blog about his work with war dogs (since his new character was a war dog). People, intrigued by the topic, would click the link, read the blog, interact&#8230;and see that there was a new book for sale. The book was there, the information was there, but the approach was different. It wasn&#8217;t intrusive like a commercial, a pop-up ad, or a repetitive sales tweet.</p>
<p>Jim <em>gave first.</em></p>
<p>As I mentioned, this passive approach made promoting Jim far less icky for those of use supporting him. <em>Hey, let&#8217;s all talk about dogs and swap pet stories! </em>is way easier for the support team to get excited about. We much prefer this to, &#8220;Download Such-and-Such&#8217;s book. Now only $4.99!&#8221; We don&#8217;t want to tweet that about our own book, let alone someone else&#8217;s (yes, even Jim).</p>
<p>Serving first and promoting in a socially appropriate way is much more effective in an environment governed by social norms. It allows us to achieve our goals while respecting the virtual space of others.</p>
<p>What are your social media pet peeves? Do you see red when people post ads on your walls? Or does it not bother you? Do you buy books from people who promote a lot on Twitter? Or do you not see the tweets? Do they irritate you or make you unfollow? What are some of the areas where you see the most personal space invasion?</p>
<p>A quick announcement: WANA International is offering a class for <a href="http://wanaintl.com/?page_id=13&amp;ee=64" target="_blank">creating your novel&#8217;s log-line. </a>This is perfect for those of you panicked about pitching your book to agents. Solid log-lines are VERY helpful to keep you on track for NaNoWriMo. Down with plot bunnies! WANA also has classes about how to turn your books into audio, how to build your own web site. Lots of good stuff, so, if you have a moment, <a href="http://wanaintl.com/?page_id=516" target="_blank">check out the new class listing.</a></p>
<p>I LOVE hearing from you!</p>
<p>To prove it and show my love, for the month of October, <strong>everyone who leaves a comment I will put your name in a hat. If you comment and link back to my blog on your blog, you get your name in the hat twice. If you leave a comment, and link back to my blog, and mention my book <em>We Are Not Alone </em>in your blog…you get your name in the hat THREE times.</strong> What do you win? The unvarnished truth from yours truly.</p>
<p><strong>I will pick a winner <em>once a month</em> and it will be a critique of <strong>the first 20 pages of your novel</strong>, <strong>or your query letter, or your synopsis (5 pages or less)</strong>.<br />
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<p>And also, winners have a limited time to claim the prize, because what’s happening is there are actually quite a few people who never claim the critique, so I never know if the spam folder ate it or to look for it and then people miss out. I will also give my corporate e-mail to insure we connect and I will only have a week to return the 20 page edit.</p>
<p>At the end of October I will pick a winner for the monthly prize. Good luck!</p>
<p><strong>I also hope you pick up copies of my best-selling books </strong><a href="https://coolgus.com/index.php?route=product/product&amp;keyword=We+Are+Not+Alone&amp;description=1&amp;model=1&amp;product_id=87" target="_blank"><strong>W</strong>e Are Not Alone–The Writer’s Guide to Social Media</a> and <a href="https://coolgus.com/index.php?route=product/search&amp;keyword=are%20you%20there%20blog&amp;model=1&amp;description=1" target="_blank"><em>Are You There, Blog? It’s Me, Writer</em> </a><a href="https://whodareswinspublishing.com/index.php?route=product/product&amp;product_id=59" target="_blank">. </a>And both are recommended by the hottest agents and biggest authors in the biz. My methods teach you how to make building your author platform FUN. Build a platform and still have time left to write great books.</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://authorkristenlamb.com/2012/10/selling-our-books-on-social-media-dont-be-a-personal-space-invader/">Selling Our Books on Social Media&#8211;Don&#039;t Be a Personal Space Invader</a> appeared first on <a href="https://authorkristenlamb.com">Kristen Lamb</a>.</p>
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